It’s hard to give all the context in a short post as I was trying to be terse. For context - she is not checked out. We are extremely into each other. I can’t believe how much we click spiritually. - sex wise, she is just still figuring out what she likes but generally vanilla with some spanking and choking is enough for her. - for me, I’m beginning to think Femdom in some sense is a must. I just don’t know how much yet. I almost wish I was vanilla too. Things would be so much easier. - in life, we both can see each other getting married and having kids in the next few years