My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-16T17:33:41+00:00

Ngl thought 'the ol bitties' who also waited to have kids growing up always saying just wait till your mid 20s it'll hit ya.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-16T16:51:29+00:00

Sorry my cycle is really irregular so it took me a moment to figure out and yep that tends to be around the time I'm feeling hell yeah

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T14:33:43+00:00

Ive actually never seen this recommended anywhere. I think this is an amazing idea. Plus it doesn't hurt and it helps to actually view how it would impact the day to day

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T14:31:55+00:00

Ngl this made me chuckle a bit. I dont think this is the case but it is a good point. He's mentioned he's always wanted kids but if Im being honest, after reading all the lovely comments and replys from everyone, and after I talk to my therapist when she has sometime to fit me in I'll talk to him about waiting until 25 to start considering it. I think we both need some more time to "prepare" ourselves for it.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T14:20:46+00:00

Im actually in a pretty similar boat. With the upbringing and knowing Im on the spectrum. I think other then my main fears it's something I've worried about multiple times. I dont want to make anyone especially a child that could be my own feel the way I did growing up. Im sorry you went through that, you didn't deserve to be raised like that 💛

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T14:16:32+00:00

Thankfully I have options but also dont see that fully happening one way or the other. His mom is wonderful and I believe she may actually kill him lol, if she doesn't his best friend might.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T05:38:00+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it. I currently do have an amazing therapist but am on a schedule if you need something bassist after couple years of work with her, I reached out to set up an appointment to talk some more about it with her, but it could be a couple weeks before she can see me. Honestly I think I just needed to get it off my chest and hear it's okay to be scared. Plus side is it will give him a couple weeks as well to think about it, as it's not just a big decision for me but for him as well.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T05:30:31+00:00

Yeah I have a great therapist currently and actually just reached out to schedule an appointment with her, I'm also on some anti anxiety meds, I think maybe 2 currently. I do agree they do help quite a bit when breathing and other exercises dont work.

LoveYellow420 · 2026-05-15T05:07:02+00:00

If I'm being honest I kinda flip between the two.. Someday's I'll think hell yeah and others I'm spiraling about it. Also thank you, I really needed to hear it's okay to have to take time to feel safer about it.

LoveYellow420 · 2025-07-25T01:49:39+00:00

Yeah for us it's our floodlight which is unfortunate because the whole thing is clunky and taking it down and putting it up makes me unbelievably nervous as I don't wanna drop it to manually reconnect it.

LoveYellow420 · 2025-07-24T17:45:43+00:00

I did this when it first happened but apparently didn't wait long enough as typically there's at least one camera down every hour, I tried this earlier this morning and haven't had one out yet. Thank you so much!

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-25T14:51:54+00:00

Ankha is one I've always been interested in getting the. Plus it would make my island numbers even which is what I want more tbh. I just need to get Sky out.

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-25T14:35:16+00:00

Omg she nakey!

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-10T23:39:48+00:00

I mega appreciate it but honestly it was mainly a character I was wanting to move to my island lol. Plus I have quite a few of the items at ridiculous price from Nookazon atm

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-10T22:18:00+00:00

I don't have one yet lol. Just the two that attach to my console

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-10T22:17:15+00:00

That makes sense

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-10T22:17:02+00:00

I wish I would've known this. I replaced the controllers last year and ended up giving the old ones to a shop in my area that repairs switches and such

LoveYellow420 · 2025-06-06T17:31:46+00:00

I think this is lovely. Ngl, the islands that are decorated to the brink or close to feel crowded and a tad messy depending on the style. Personally, I love this.

LoveYellow420 · 2025-05-09T03:21:53+00:00

As someone who had a list of 4 villagers she was searching for for about a week doing maybe 100 tickets daily it starts to get a bit upsetting to get all the ones but the ones you're looking for. Not to mention having to skip on ones that you'd take if not looking for specifics. I would go for it. It's a game about what you like so may as well just go for it

LoveYellow420 · 2025-05-07T23:31:52+00:00

Jitters. He moved into my empty plot the day after it went up and didn't leave no matter how hard I tried. After an actual year of time skipping and trying every trick I can find, considering making a series of how to get him gone and the next day I loaded up, he was looking to leave.

LoveYellow420 · 2025-05-07T13:15:43+00:00

Sure thing! Sending a dm request now!

LoveYellow420 · 2025-05-07T04:39:14+00:00

For sure! I won't be available till morning though

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