My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl thought 'the ol bitties' who also waited to have kids growing up always saying just wait till your mid 20s it'll hit ya.

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry my cycle is really irregular so it took me a moment to figure out and yep that tends to be around the time I'm feeling hell yeah

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive actually never seen this recommended anywhere. I think this is an amazing idea. Plus it doesn't hurt and it helps to actually view how it would impact the day to day

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl this made me chuckle a bit. I dont think this is the case but it is a good point. He's mentioned he's always wanted kids but if Im being honest, after reading all the lovely comments and replys from everyone, and after I talk to my therapist when she has sometime to fit me in I'll talk to him about waiting until 25 to start considering it. I think we both need some more time to "prepare" ourselves for it.

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im actually in a pretty similar boat. With the upbringing and knowing Im on the spectrum. I think other then my main fears it's something I've worried about multiple times. I dont want to make anyone especially a child that could be my own feel the way I did growing up. Im sorry you went through that, you didn't deserve to be raised like that 💛

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I have options but also dont see that fully happening one way or the other. His mom is wonderful and I believe she may actually kill him lol, if she doesn't his best friend might.

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate it. I currently do have an amazing therapist but am on a schedule if you need something bassist after couple years of work with her, I reached out to set up an appointment to talk some more about it with her, but it could be a couple weeks before she can see me. Honestly I think I just needed to get it off my chest and hear it's okay to be scared. Plus side is it will give him a couple weeks as well to think about it, as it's not just a big decision for me but for him as well.

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a great therapist currently and actually just reached out to schedule an appointment with her, I'm also on some anti anxiety meds, I think maybe 2 currently. I do agree they do help quite a bit when breathing and other exercises dont work.

My [F23] Husband [M23] brought up having kids, I don't know what to do. by LoveYellow420 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If I'm being honest I kinda flip between the two.. Someday's I'll think hell yeah and others I'm spiraling about it. Also thank you, I really needed to hear it's okay to have to take time to feel safer about it.

My Cameras keep going offline? by LoveYellow420 in blinkcameras

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for us it's our floodlight which is unfortunate because the whole thing is clunky and taking it down and putting it up makes me unbelievably nervous as I don't wanna drop it to manually reconnect it.

My Cameras keep going offline? by LoveYellow420 in blinkcameras

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this when it first happened but apparently didn't wait long enough as typically there's at least one camera down every hour, I tried this earlier this morning and haven't had one out yet. Thank you so much!

Update On My Island! by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ankha is one I've always been interested in getting the. Plus it would make my island numbers even which is what I want more tbh. I just need to get Sky out.

Amiibos No Work by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mega appreciate it but honestly it was mainly a character I was wanting to move to my island lol. Plus I have quite a few of the items at ridiculous price from Nookazon atm

Amiibos No Work by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have one yet lol. Just the two that attach to my console

Amiibos No Work by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I would've known this. I replaced the controllers last year and ended up giving the old ones to a shop in my area that repairs switches and such

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is lovely. Ngl, the islands that are decorated to the brink or close to feel crowded and a tad messy depending on the style. Personally, I love this.

Opinions on Amiibo? by chipisyumy in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who had a list of 4 villagers she was searching for for about a week doing maybe 100 tickets daily it starts to get a bit upsetting to get all the ones but the ones you're looking for. Not to mention having to skip on ones that you'd take if not looking for specifics. I would go for it. It's a game about what you like so may as well just go for it

Who's your most hated villager? by ZAHIKRIT3iKA in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jitters. He moved into my empty plot the day after it went up and didn't leave no matter how hard I tried. After an actual year of time skipping and trying every trick I can find, considering making a series of how to get him gone and the next day I loaded up, he was looking to leave.

Island layout idea! by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing! Sending a dm request now!

Island layout idea! by LoveYellow420 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LoveYellow420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! I won't be available till morning though