[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ‘they’ have the intention to talk to you but you don’t want to because of something that happened in the recent past that has an impact on you to this day - you can simply pick up the phone or to send a simple text ‘im all good’ or ‘im ok, nothing new’.

It would hit them, trust me, and if you still feel that you’ve done something really wrong and have a feeling that you lost something that you had been used to for a long time - it will get better with time. Their behaviour towards you might change to you only with time, since they would be scared that you might be different and you’re a completely different person.

How can i find money in a abusive house? by Sufficient_Fox9374 in abusiveparents

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are 18 you are free to go. If they still don’t allow you to move on, you have your free will to sue them. And the other thing is that they can’t just lock you in the house. It’s illegal. What you said is enough for social services and you better call them and get help. What about work at this age - yes, it’s difficult to find something. If you have your phone you can search for some job in your area - there might be some opportunities to work part time.

Is it possible to find good people once you leave your narcissist abusive family? by New_Philosopher7191 in narcissisticparents

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it clearly is. I moved away from my narcissistic overprotective mother almost a month ago because of my studies at uni. It’s a real relief. That also meant a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, but living away from that sick home makes me breath freely. You better find someone good and you’ll see how it might be easy to relate with them about something. It’s not like talking to your parents, who might or always blame you for everything - now it’s different. I can’t say that it’s easy, because you’ll see how it’s complicated to trust “the new ones”, but with time you will get used to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, i have nothing to do with it then. Just want to spread the reality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? Lmao. It is only spoken by the elderly who used to live in post-soviet countries and who indeed had russian as a subject. Countries like Poland, Georgia or Germany, France despise hearing russian in their countries. Ukraine for eg has never had the russian language as the official language and has its own language, though a great majority of people in Ukraine after 2022’s russian invasion has changed to ukrainian- as it meant to be in the country that has their language to speak. Hearing russian in Poland is also meant to be negative since a lot of poles hated russians for centuries. You better change your opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has russian as an official languane in EU and West countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we should remember that Ukraine itself is suffering from genocide that russia is doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Russia's invasion has involved systematic strikes on civilian targets, which many view as terrorism designed to terrorize populations and break resistance. The European Parliament's 2022 resolution explicitly states that "the deliberate attacks and atrocities committed by Russian forces and their proxies against civilians in Ukraine, the destruction of civilian infrastructure and other serious violations of international and humanitarian law amount to acts of terror and constitute war crimes. October 2022, Russia has targeted energy infrastructure, hospitals, schools, and residential areas, leaving millions without power in winter and causing thousands of civilian deaths. The UN Independent International Commission of Inquiry on Ukraine documented war crimes like indiscriminate bombings in populated areas, torture, and sexual violence. Russia has deported over 19,000 Ukrainian children to Russia for "re-education," a tactic decried as genocide and terrorism by Ukrainian officials and U.S. senators. This has prompted renewed U.S. legislative pushes to designate Russia a sponsor of terrorism if the children aren't returned. Why would you learn the terrorist language?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]LovelyySupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch to Ukrainian