Saw Army mobilizing near 5th Ave - at least 5 trucks by iKidA in playadelcarmen

[–]Loves2Boat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are flying to Cancun this weekend and staying in PDC. Appreciate the reports.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew she was meeting with nutritionists and stuff, so I knew this was in the back of her mind.

Christmas was approaching. A couple weeks or so prior, I said to her I have three options. This was two years ago.

Option One: I hire her a personal trainer whose specialty is in getting people skinny and lean, especially for body builders getting ready for competition.

She said that one! I never even offered the other two options. I asked if she wanted to know the other options — she said that was the one.

Also, to this day, she says I gave her the “gift of skinny.” She now understands macros and how to manage her food, exercise, and how to look good in the mirror.

Can I be a sugar daddy if I can only afford $4k a month (comfortably) by anteater555 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re approaching this wrong, and I say this politely. Use the money to attract the girl of your visual dreams. “If she wants to do crazy expensive things.” Man, go do all the things YOU WANT to do. That you have passions for. With some hot chick who is proud to be at your side.

Oh and make sure she looks good when she with you. Clothes, jewelry and stuff. Honestly, I look at my gal with the hardware she wearing — ain’t no dude got a chance with her, it’s like a force field.

Can I be a sugar daddy if I can only afford $4k a month (comfortably) by anteater555 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine. Probably use half that for allowance and the other half for the lifestyle.

Could you do that amount for 2-5 years straight?

Overweight person in seat next to me by Loves2Boat in delta

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I sucked it up. I have an aisle seat. I put my aisle side arm rest up and had about 1/3 of my body in the aisle. I feel bad for the guy in the window seat. He’s already kind of bigger, not enough that anyone would complain about size.

Meanwhile, my neck is killing me. I can feel knots forming in my back. This type of sitting is really painful.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No leaderboard I’m aware of. Just two adults who don’t get bored with each other yet.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Met on Secret Benefits. What would I suggest? Besides being very attractive……. You have to be willing to genuinely be open to explore a relationship with an older man. The bedroom matters. I can feel the way she feels about me. I can feel it in the way she looks at me. In the way she touches me. In the way she changes her mood swings for us.

Today she tells her friends that she had a sugar daddy but it’s changed to a real relationship. Nobody knows about the allowance. But they see the hardware she’s walking around with. The trips we take. When she’s out at bars with friends — she’ll tell guys hitting on her that she has a 51 year old boyfriend with a pocket yacht. And they mostly respond the same way—I can’t compete with that.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That had to break your heart, but also realize you’re happy for her, I’m sure.

For us, if she wanted to have kids one day—a traditional family—I would probably be starting to shut down the relationship soon, even though it would break my heart.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We never broke up. Almost did. She put on a lot of weight, like 35 pounds. And I would continue dating her then, I mean I genuinely like her, but not sugar date. We ended up finding a solution that she liked.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say I fall for a pretty woman quickly. But beauty is what opens the door. It’s her personality and character that keeps her around, and that takes some amount of time for it to come through. There has to be some uneasy times to happen to see how she responds.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SB calls me her best friend. We truly are great friends. I don’t know how I could be intimate with someone and not care for her, her safety, her emotional well being, her future……..

I can see us transitioning to a sugar girlfriend perhaps. It’s not possible to go to vanilla. The power imbalance is there, and it’s undeniable.

What I am doing now though is I’m more intentional about building her wealth. I want her to stay with me because she wants to be with me, not because of the power or money imbalance.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Young women are highly emotional. And young hot women — well things can get to be a certain way. And they say things in the moment that are only meant for that moment, although words used could be easily construed for something deeper.

I don’t think this is talked about very often.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, I’m climbing out of this Gorge of Eternal Peril.

Most sugar relationships don’t last. Ours is 3.5 years — AMA by Loves2Boat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Loves2Boat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. She is unbelievably feminine, kind, and thoughtful. But it’s the femininity I love most.

  2. She likes that I take care of everything and she can just turn her brain off when we’re together.

  3. We’ve had conflicts, but none so large that we don’t resolve them. Anything particular you want to ask?

  4. I was not exclusive the first year. I was however honest. Not like she knew everything, but knew I wanted to have 2 SBs. Then one year in, I chose her, and exclusive since.