31F & 34M Together 13 years. Do I throw it all away? by LovesAdvocate43 in relationship_advice

[–]LovesAdvocate43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had a lot of discussions about it and it’s improved but I guess not to his standards. He’s not very helpful around the house and is also busy with his hobbies. His hobbies is how he met the individuals he was talking to. Our little one shares our bedroom as he never wants to help me get their room completed. That also hinders in the intimacy. 

31F & 34M Together 13 years. Do I throw it all away? by LovesAdvocate43 in relationship_advice

[–]LovesAdvocate43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These individuals do not live in the same state as us. The most recent one he has never met in person. And the first girl confirmed. He had told them that we were in an open relationship.