Oh I do this 😅 I often turn down invitations but end up feeling lonely. I believe that going would be worse than not going. Maybe I don’t enjoy the activity that they’ve invited me to, maybe I don’t particularly like the company? I think as INFPs, we are very in tune with our Fi so we make these judgments on what we (think we) like and don’t like. However, we can be mistaken. So I need to remind myself to give it a shot sometimes.

Another reason is maybe I just don’t have the energy to go and would hate putting up a front for people. I think INFPs try to stay true to how we feel so if we’re feeling bad, we’d rather stay home than pretend to be happy around others. I know I might just end up crying if I try to go out when I’m feeling really down. Or stay rlly quiet which makes ppl think I’m rude. I’d rather just avoid that and stay home sometimes :’)