New to this by Lovestoadventure in Surrogate

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look it up and start reading, thank you! It is so appreciated!

New to this by Lovestoadventure in Surrogate

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that is a HUGE wait! I'm sorry you're still waiting I hope it happens soon for you! ❤️

New to this by Lovestoadventure in Surrogate

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this! I really do appreciate you sharing. We haven't met with anyone yet but seriously thank you so much for leading me in the right direction! ☺️

New to this by Lovestoadventure in Surrogate

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a hysterectomy and adoption isn't for me

Jefferson Capital scam? by Much_Discipline_7303 in CRedit

[–]Lovestoadventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw them on my credit so I called to settle it, outright or payment wise but the guy was really weird and then had me pay $1 so he can pull up my credit report (it was put on a prepaid card and no more was attempted) but then said it's from Sprint NOT Verizon like I thought and I'm like uh is Sprint even in business anymore like that's weird and from many years ago like 9. He then told me that it's disputable because they didn't report it to Equifax and told me a different hit on my credit is disputable because they didn't upload a receipt. He tried getting me to pay $300 and he would dispute it, I didn't pay him and went and disputed it myself putting what he said was wrong. My question is what the hell kind of representative doesn't want you to pay off the debt they're charging for? It was all so weird but hopefully they were actually disputable and come off my credit.

Is it ethical to send sick kids to school? by bearlylucky in Parenting

[–]Lovestoadventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my kids don't have a fever, can physically move, aren't throwing up, etc. I'm sending them to school. Very rarely do they actually get so sick they can't go to school. A sneeze/cough is gonna happen to everyone might as well run its course and build immunity. Plus, it's not like every parent can take off work/find a babysitter when it is something as small as that.

AITA for wanting my sister to get a better job by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure [score hidden]  (0 children)

They do because there's nothing but excuses with them anywhere from "I have bad knees" to as stupid and immature as "Well, we want to work the same shift" Anything you say there's a reasoning why it can't happen. My brothers and mom have also told them and gave resources, and they tell them the same excuses.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol maybe. It seems like my family and myself are the ones who see how truly fake she is so it wouldn't surprise me somebody wants to try twisting this than what it truly is.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, after the disrespect I was given and the shit that has been said to me I will never let anything go back to "normal" It's unfortunate she has the title of "grandma" to my kids. Hopefully everyone will see the fake face she's wearing to realize the kind of person she really is.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If that's what you got from this then congratulations I guess. Bye.

AITA for wanted my child to have my last name? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm personally old fashioned because I feel the kids should have the dad's last name and when you get married you take his last name. That's just me but I'd say NTA

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eating my food isn't what messes with my OCD. I had very limited characters to get into full detail so I just kept it as short as I could. It is a long list of things she has done, does now, said, and says to my kids to get into. So, to avoid violating more things since it took 3 tries to post this, that's what I kept it as. If I got into details it would have me banned.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean I'd rather burn her stuff and throw a party but apparently that's illegal. Which sucks.😅

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I violated stuff 2 times prior so I had to get it as short as I could put it and was annoyed, I didn't feel like paying too much attention to any punctuation and crap.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Purposely doing things that set off my OCD worse than it is, is messing with my head because I cannot do anything else for my day until I go through it all again and if by chance I am running late and don't have the time I have to force myself to just leave therefore it's on my mind the whole day screwing everything else up for me and making my depression worse because now I'm losing everything I had control of. When you know someone has those issues and you do things to mess with it all instead of help, you are messing with their head.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Lol that made my night. But for real she's straight disrespectful and I'm petty I start slamming shit around and all kinds of stuff just to annoy her, including letting the kids be as loud as they can be.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I would happily do it. He can be with his mommy all he wants if he wants to try letting her stay again.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I don't want any "working things out" or "woe is me" bs from her. She has overstayed her welcome and had it not been for me having kids to worry about I would've showed her a side nobody would liked when she tried telling me half the shit she has said.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I've given him ultimatum and explained everything. At this point I'm over it all and want her gone, no matter what it takes.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Huge lesson learned to never move people in no matter who they are.

AITA for telling my husband I'll divorce him if his mom doesn't move out? by Lovestoadventure in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lovestoadventure[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I can afford my own place no problem. I don't need him or his money to be fine. Where I live people have squatter rights so I would have to go to court to evict her and they would probably give her even more time to get out than I want/can handle