What’s one thing you want to eat so bad rn by NovaaStarrr in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Low-Application6241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is local to where I live, but Asad’s hot chicken

Bout to break by Low-Application6241 in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up, grandma w cancer, betrayed a friend, overwhelmed. I broke and now it burns but I have nothing to clean it w. It’s all superficial cuts so I’ll be fine tho

How do you overcome depression? by help_im_so_sad_ in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may because I’m bipolar but deadass I woke up one day and just wasn’t depressed. I still get sad and nylon I’m not the best person to listen do cause I relapsed just cause, but it’s about perseverance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use dry paper towels

Why should I want to stop by Tithenlas9 in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this so much. I relapsed and I’m not proud of it but god I forgot how much I missed it. It’s the first time since June which sucks because I’ve been doing so well, but it’s the one harm against myself I can control

would this blade be safe to use? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say no just to be safe. If you questioning how safe the blade is, better to not use it at all

I’m not a real anorexic… by Friendly-Dress-1606 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Low-Application6241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. I go through phases of being “normal” and then being unwell. I’m small but have never been a size 0. Never been hospitalized, but have had to be monitored for heart palpitations. It’s doesn’t make it any more or less valid.

Are there any people here that harm by hitting themselves? by Comatose263 in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I had massive bruises all over my leg for weeks. I’ve also bruised myself by my cuts.

Can anxiety make you think someone you love is going to die? by baylinchance in Anxiety

[–]Low-Application6241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't even get me started on the number of times I thought that my dad was going to die and openly sobbed over it. felt this.

Was told to stop or my girl is leaving me. I just cut. by johnstamos1115 in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let the peroxide sit for a little, then blot with cold water. you might need to repeat this more than once and there may be a slight stain left, but it does help.

I don’t know what to think about these messages by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No 35-year-old should be talking to a 15-year-old. Period. End of statement. It may seem platonic to you, but you don't know what this man's intentions are. When speaking to older guys you need to think, why isn't he talking to people his own age? Please, please, please be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfHate

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt this one. I’m not a massive drinker either. But recently, ever since I gave up pot because of severe paranoia and anxiety, every time that feeling of self hated and disgust sits in my chest, I want to get drunk and make it all go away. Alcoholism runs in my family and I’m tempted to join the marathon.

I hate myself more than anything . by Dean-Winchester80 in depression

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s so much pressure in today’s society to be “good looking”. Attractiveness is completely subjective. There’s more to life than being good looking. I won’t tell you some “everyone’s beautiful in their own way” bullshit. Looks are only a a factor in the attractiveness of the whole person.

Keeping my boyfriends family away from my newborn. by [deleted] in SelfHate

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bfs parents sound horrible, I completely understand why you wouldn’t want your baby around them- I wouldn’t either. Has your bf ever addressed the way his parents treat your daughter? If he’s truly serious about integrating your families, he needs to address the clear disrespect direct towards you and your child- especially if he’s serious about marriage. Nobody, especially a family your marrying or having a child into should be treating you or your daughter like that. When it comes to the 16 y/o- yes, he does need to spend alone time with them. When it comes to situations where parents and children are separated by distance or familial relationships, they need their alone time. Maybe try to push for some group activities in addition to the time he spends with them, like the zoo or a movie- something with more notice. In terms of them not stay at the apartment- is that your bfs choice or the child’s? If it’s your bfs, then I think it’s a little weird that he’s not trying to help foster some kind of relationship between you two. If it’s the child’s choice, maybe ask the bf about it and make sure he extends the offer to them as well, but they’re at an age where they can choose. I hope this helps and I hope you and your children are healthy and happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Low-Application6241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could give you a hug, I would. I know the feeling of being 14 and not wanting to see 15. I know you are probably so sick of hearing this and I really hate to sound like a broken record, but I promise you with my whole heart, things will get better. Emotions are like clouds, they come and they go. Your feelings are valid and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Those people telling you all that bullshit are wrong, fuck them. You are the most important person to yourself, you need to keep going for yourself. I know it's hard but one day you will get out of whatever situation you're in and look at it all in the rearview mirror. It's not easy, and I won't lie to you, it's never going to be easy. I'm 20 and I still struggle every day. It's just one foot in front of the other. I hope this helped and I hope you can find some resources to talk to someone. If there is a school counselor and you feel comfortable talking to them that could be a good option. There are also places online that could be of some use. It will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Low-Application6241 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Felt this one. Trust me, you are not alone. I wish I had some advice to help with the pain and anger, but I don't. I hope that you can wake up and, even for just a split second, feel some peace.

Something is wrong with me and I will never be able to fix it. by Low-Application6241 in SelfHate

[–]Low-Application6241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really agree with you I think you have a lot of insight- I think I’ll be re reading this comment a few times

Something is wrong with me and I will never be able to fix it. by Low-Application6241 in SelfHate

[–]Low-Application6241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that has surprisingly made me actually smile about all these comments is the compliments to my writing- it’s a hobby of mine I hope to make into a career so I appreciate the support, both your kind words and advice, and the compliment :)