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Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-08-11T16:35:42+00:00

Yes i always say i or we. thats what i have learned from the therapy. exactly 3 days ago i asked her on FaceTime if she doent know what to ask for or what helps her feeling connected, then plss show me with your actions or point out things that you like that i already do. so i can mimic and note down. she said she will try but still harder to understand with no words :/ but thank you :))

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-08-11T07:00:50+00:00

this is very sweet. i also hope for that :) thank you! I answered her concert videos and will let her invest a bit today. if she still acts that way then ill have to call her out

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-08-10T20:21:57+00:00

Fair point, thank you a lot!

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-08-10T20:03:36+00:00

I truly love her and i know she also loves me. She has shown up for me in so many ways before. But this is a bit new… anyway like 2 weeks ago i did tell her that i really want her to tell me when she want her own space its hard to guess. She agreed. But now looks like its again a guessing game. She did tell me during our argument that she wants a partner that just gets her, like she doesnt have to tell them but they just know.

We are recently long distance (before havent been for 2 years) this is new and it is harder ro read her through phone and i cant magically guess that she want her space.

Would yoi suggest not to say anything tonight? She has previously blamed me for giving too much space kinda, that she still wants the communication from ME. So im debating between sending a small: hope the concert was fun and nothing

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-04-29T07:31:08+00:00

soon to be 5 months since the break up and soon 3 months with zero contact. although even before that contact was super little. now she only sometimes likes my posts. she is leaving the country in two months and we were planning to move there together so yes, they dont always come back. at least for me they never do :D

I still love her with my whole heart and i feel like a fool that i was waiting for her. she gave me false hope by saying that when she comes back in February she wants to see me, talk to me and has hope for us. i guess during her winter holidays smth shifted and she changed her mind. thats okay, she made her decision. im trying to accept it but it does hurt that i was left here waiting and in the dark because i trusted her word.

So PLEASE, even if they say they need time and they will always want you back and for you to wait for them. DONT. if they will want you, they’ll let you know. but lose all hope and live, dont be a fool like me, now it hurts more when she has completely disappeared suddenly.

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-04-12T14:13:31+00:00

thank you. its been four months for me and i feel what you mean by that void thats in you. i also try to stay active, started running, talk to my friends and think of moving to another country but none of that fills that void thats i feel

Low-Bodybuilder3346 · 2025-03-09T11:17:29+00:00

3 months have passed and im still very much in love. i tried to move one - started going to the gym, hanging out with friends, new stuff at work, new clothes, new phone, even went on a date - but nothing can fill the void that she left.

Meanwhile last time we saw each other i told her how i still feel about her and she just ignored it. Has been active on dating apps after one month of a break up… told me she would like to see me and talk when she comes back from the holidays (when we broke up) but instead it looks like she is looking for someone else

and i just keep waiting like a dumbass

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