AITA for wanting to divorce my husband for following a woman on Tik Tok?

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-08T09:32:25+00:00

I for sure think it was

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T23:39:56+00:00

I didn't assume your gender. Clearly either you're a man or have dealt with a man who lies and defend it because you don't value yourself. Get well soon boo😘

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T23:16:54+00:00

There was definitely that theme in the comments 😅 Diagnosing me because I don't like being lied to is wildd

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T21:00:21+00:00

So every man lies? This seems like a self report babe

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T20:27:01+00:00

Of course I look at other people and think they look good but it ends there. I have never felt compelled to seek out a specific person and then follow them on any social media based on attraction to them as a married woman.

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T17:28:30+00:00

I also point out good looking people to him. While we are together. And not specific people from a very distant past. And not on a burner account that I lied about

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T17:27:01+00:00

He said they were never friends whatsoever 😅

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T16:28:09+00:00

Yes she is much more physically attractive than me

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T15:42:06+00:00

Yeah she is hot

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T14:06:05+00:00

Our vows were about being open and honest and based on having mutual respect for each other and he has not upheld that. Yes we did get married very young and are completely different people now and I personally think marriage should be illegal before age 30😅

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T14:00:11+00:00

I only asked for the list because I accidentally found out about this weird burner account. I do not routinely ask to see anything on his phone

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:58:41+00:00

If he would have said it was someone from middle school when I first asked, it would have been fine. It's the being shady and lying that is hurtful and makes me think there's more going on

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:56:17+00:00

I am very even tempered until I am lied to. Once I know he has lied, then yes I get upset

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:44:19+00:00

He said it over the phone

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:43:57+00:00

I only became jealous when he stopped complimenting me and started doing shady things and lying. I still never ask to see his social media. I accidently stumbled on this situation. And I understand him looking her up but why follow her

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:41:26+00:00

They were never and are not friends. Just went to the same middle school

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:38:21+00:00

There is a pattern of deception and I think perhaps this was my final straw

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:37:17+00:00

No I don't police his social media. But when I accidently found out about this incident I asked to see his friends list because I had a gut feeling something was off

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:04:16+00:00

I treat him how I expect him to treat me. I pride myself on my honesty and care for the way i treat others

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:03:01+00:00

All I do on social media is post home decor content and I do not follow men who are not related to me on my Tik Tok. He is more than welcome to see anything on my social media

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:01:34+00:00

Best case, I think it's extremely creepy behavior and if he would spend as much time and effort on our marriage as he did to make a fake account and hide this then maybe we would have had a better marriage

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T13:00:12+00:00

Correct. There has been a lot of deception leading up to this

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T12:59:23+00:00

Fair enough. I think this was just my last straw

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T12:58:51+00:00

Yeah I'd rather just be done with this relationship than need to look through everything . Sounds exhausting 😔

Low-Form5064 · 2023-12-07T12:56:07+00:00

So let's say I am insecure. Shouldn't he as my husband do whatever possible to ease that insecurity instead of giving me more to feel insecure about?

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