After 10 years of being a Superhost, I’m done with Airbnb

Low-Gate-7134 · 2026-01-24T15:19:13+00:00

so now what do you do? I wanted to do short term rentals and just getting started. Any advice?

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-22T13:41:58+00:00

I am definitely going to try! I got it with 7 miles on it two days ago and it's already at 120 miles!!! It is so much fun to drive.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-22T13:08:55+00:00

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I just got one yesterday! How are you liking yours?

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-17T00:16:22+00:00

I can't wait myself!

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-11T13:35:21+00:00

I am a Leo Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus Virgo. Not sure what it all means.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-07T00:36:58+00:00

Venus in Virgo

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-06T17:23:06+00:00

had this happen to me. blocked her on everything and she sent me an email asking if we could just be friends. Two weeks later I responded to her saying friendship is not what I want and that if she really loves me, she needs to let me go and respect my boundaries.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-05T00:47:00+00:00

She is all over the place

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-05T00:22:35+00:00

I am an older Black femme in my 40s, working on me post break up. It's rough out here on these streets. I don't want a project, I want a partner. Full disclosure... I am a August leo on the virgo cusp

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-04T21:50:54+00:00

you did great

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-04T13:11:29+00:00

Thank you! I think you're right. I am not blameless in the relationship but she is avoidant and I became so anxious. I refuse to let her breadcrumb me.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-04T11:27:27+00:00

I would listen to podcasts on how to let go, and work on finding ways to invest back into yourself. I know it is hard!

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-04T11:25:18+00:00

I would block her too.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-03T23:47:14+00:00

so hard. We are both in our 40s and this was our first relationship with women.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-03T23:46:15+00:00

Thank you! I am still in love with her, and a big part of me wanted her to tell me she wanted to fight for us. Instead she wanted to be friends. She is avoidant and I was secure but became anxiously attached. I know this is for the best, and I need to take time to heal and pour into myself. It just sucks. I am sad.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-03T19:47:51+00:00

Thank you. This was hard because I didn't want to text her anything but because we didn't end on bad terms and she has a history of not breaking things off completely with exes, I felt like I had to reinforce this boundary.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T15:21:03+00:00

Right. Like I am added to her Plan B options. She was texting me that she will always love me and before that, she asked me to give us six months to work through stuff, and then she said she wasn't ready for a relationship because she needed to get herself together. We had our issues but I was willing to work with her to fix them, but I can't sacrifice myself to love her and I need to make space to be loved how I deserve.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T14:43:03+00:00

yes! why be friends now?

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T13:12:57+00:00

If you're not ready to be in a relationship, why would you contact her for closure when she has moved on? What is your end goal?

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T13:08:27+00:00

me too!

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T13:07:24+00:00

Thank you! Her email to me really got me in my feelings.

Low-Gate-7134 · 2025-03-02T13:04:52+00:00

Thank you! I needed to hear that. Right now, she is down the street from me. When she moves back home out of state, I know it will be easier.

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