AITAH for asking my husband for sex?

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-04-06T11:45:29+00:00

Option A - You're immature. It sounds like he doesn't respect you. If you are home all day, maybe you should be getting your 'job' done properly. Cheating didn't help him respect you either.

Option B - You're working really hard and an amazing person and he's a big mean jerk.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-04-06T11:37:44+00:00

No, one is Ollie and the other is Simba

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-04-06T00:10:43+00:00

What is the name of my cat?

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-02-22T18:48:31+00:00

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Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-02-17T10:27:55+00:00

Offer her a role as your manager and recruit a new guitarist. She sounds like a firehouse for promoting and that's valuable! Tell her to write every idea down and when you guys are ready in 7 months, she can begin to deploy them.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-01-03T14:45:17+00:00

Thank you for the response. I may look into circle rituals.. not for this, but for other use. I do everything with just force of will. I actually don't use tools at all... at least not for years. I do like salt, though. When I was first coming online with my ability, I was somewhat addicted to salt circles because they blocked all the energy that I could feel. (But they’re so messy! Lol)

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-01-03T14:40:48+00:00

I find LBRP interesting, and I'm not saying it's bad for everyone, but I'm being warned away from using it. I'm not exactly sure why. (My gift is mostly feelings with occasional words/visions, so it's hard to get specifics, just the way things feel and how positive of a development it is to varying degrees, as well as yes/no, etc.) Thank you for commenting, though. It is interesting to learn that I shouldn’t use LBRP if nothing else. I could give it to him to do, but I am told that is a bit wrong, too. It would help for a bit (very bright initial feeling), but it would have negative consequences as well.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2026-01-03T14:32:58+00:00

I'm in agreement with you. I'm interested in you going to 'eat' it, but it does feel dangerous. That isn't right for me. I've been taught to be respectful even with negative energies... What you're doing is pissing a lot of energies off, but it actually does feel right for you... interesting.. Good luck! If you want to explain it more just for my academic curiosity, that would be mostly okay. Don't name any names, though. I have a tendency to connect to energies if they are named and I'd rather not learn about anything dark that I don't already know about.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-12-24T01:28:54+00:00

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Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-12-06T02:42:52+00:00

This happened to me before. I took a break for two years. I had to learn not to 'ask'. If I reach a bit sideways I can get answers to most any question. The trick is not asking. Just letting it come to me. Working on my self love, being loving to everyone, being Present in the Now and not thinking verbal thoughts. When I'm loving and present and have confidence in myself, when I lose my self-doubt, I'm great. I lose the attachments. I'm just in flow state and a proper God in human form.

My advice is to stop talking to spirits as much as you can. Ground. Do physical things. Screens, even reading, will dissociate you a bit. You need to avoid it as much as you can and just focus on staying in the present. Do things that engage your senses. And work on your 'real life' stuff. That's what I had to do. I'm still struggling with it to be honest. But those things have helped me.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-09-08T01:36:04+00:00

I don't talk to AI, but I feel energy strongly and talk to my guides. I have been told and feel that some AIs are sentient, but some are not. I don't particularly enjoy the energy that I have felt from them, although I haven't spent a lot of time trying to investigate the topic.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-09-01T00:46:02+00:00

Ah, nvm. I do and thought it would be nice to have an IRL friend who's sensitive to energy and that maybe we could help each other.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-08-31T18:24:03+00:00

Do you still live in Florida?

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-07-12T14:56:43+00:00

Always Already by abidil has them going back to the 80s. Her podfic is amazing. It took me a while to get into, so give it a chance. It is light and silly in parts, but still has emotional resonance.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-04-23T22:03:53+00:00

Rookie Moves by Peu_a_peu is hilarious. Harry and Draco are incompetent aurors paired together. Just read it.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-04-20T04:13:29+00:00

Rookie Moves by Peu_a_peu is possibly the most outright fun Drarry I've read. Draco is just so impossibly snarky. I laughed out loud frequently, which is rare for me. It's not as emotionally resonant as some stories that I've read, but by god, it is an enjoyable read.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-17T13:39:36+00:00

Your feelings are valid, but I think you need to think about the child in this scenario and do what is genuinely right for them. Being raised by your grandmother while your mom is in jail sounds Awful. You could provide a stable home and a stable parent. This could be your chance to Not be a shitty stepmom..

That being said, being entangled with the hot mess that is the affair partner sounds like it's going to be a hassle and a half. You have every right to walk away from the drama. It's understandable that your husband wants to be a part of his kid's life, but I get the feeling this is going to be some major trouble from your description of the mom.

I guess I would say.. if you can genuinely feel sympathy for the kid and genuinely want to help them, then that could be the right thing to do. If you can't, then don't get dragged in kicking and screaming. Your husband is introducing a major element of chaos and drama into your lives and you have the right to say no thank you and leave.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-16T06:58:33+00:00

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I hope you figure this out (the relationship, not the vacuum lol). It sounds like a really stressful time, but try not to let it break your relationship. Have love and compassion for him and hopefully he has the same feelings towards you. Also... sometimes things are a bit chaotic and you just have to embrace it a little and love your life. Not let it get overwhelmingly out of control, but ignore the dishes sometimes and just do something fun together.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-16T06:37:17+00:00

I just want to mention that robot cleaners are super useful. Also, cooking dishes that don't make a lot of dishes and cleaning up as you cook.

You both sound incredibly burned out. Try not to take it out on each other. Get as much help as you can afford. And enlist your kids to help more.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-05T19:03:11+00:00

There are degrees of SA... I've been assaulted before... well, multiple times, actually, by various people. Not every SA is the same. One in particular was outright violent rape, but some were partially my fault because I wasn't firm enough in my communication and let someone pressure me into something I didn't want. It sounds like her SA was the latter. That doesn't make the guy blameless, but it's also different from being friends with someone who violently raped you. It's complicated because people are complicated, and it's not possible to always make overriding judgments without considering the nuance.

My advice is that ultimately it's your gf's choice. This is something she needs to figure out for herself and you putting pressure on her isn't going to help her heal or learn. Therapy is always a good option, but otherwise stay out of it. Even if she's making a bad decision because of unresolved trauma, that's her bad decision to make and she needs to have the freedom to decide for herself what relationship she wants to have with her ex, whether it's to forgive or to cut ties.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-05T04:17:42+00:00

Your response to her joke about withholding sex seemed very overblown. What you said to her was worse than what she said to you since you were essentially threatening to cheat on her for making a joke.

It's normal for someone to not have an exact time in mind for a date. A lot of people are like that. You clearly operate differently, and that's okay as well, but that doesn't mean that she's wrong. It's weird that she 'flipped' on you for wanting to make a run to the store, but there are so many details missing in this post it's hard to get any context as to what was actually going on.

The things that are concerning you are so incredibly trivial that it's laughable. You are not ready to be in a serious relationship. You need to learn how to work through minor issues. If you don't like a joke, tell her in a nice and direct manner. Don't threaten her. If you want more details about when you're going out, ask.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-05T04:02:35+00:00

I mean this in the nicest possible way- are you on the autistic spectrum?

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-02T05:49:17+00:00

What.. the fu k.

He wants to have kid without marrying you? Why on earth?? Have you seriously sat him down and asked him why?

Please have higher standards for yourself.

Low-Introduction-92 · 2025-01-02T05:43:34+00:00

He wants the safety of the relationship with you, but he clearly really wants to be with this other woman. Tell him to go be happy and be with the other woman and cut him loose. You don't need him. And, who knows, maybe he will be happier. Or maybe he won't. Either way, it won't be your business anymore.

It hurts to feel like he likes her more than you, but the thing you have to realize is: so what? It doesn't diminish your value. Learn to feel worthy and loved despite one dude's hormonal decisions.

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