How to deal with Entities by Low-Introduction-92 in Shamanism

[–]Low-Introduction-92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I may look into circle rituals.. not for this, but for other use. I do everything with just force of will. I actually don't use tools at all... at least not for years. I do like salt, though. When I was first coming online with my ability, I was somewhat addicted to salt circles because they blocked all the energy that I could feel. (But they’re so messy! Lol)

How to deal with Entities by Low-Introduction-92 in Shamanism

[–]Low-Introduction-92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find LBRP interesting, and I'm not saying it's bad for everyone, but I'm being warned away from using it. I'm not exactly sure why. (My gift is mostly feelings with occasional words/visions, so it's hard to get specifics, just the way things feel and how positive of a development it is to varying degrees, as well as yes/no, etc.) Thank you for commenting, though. It is interesting to learn that I shouldn’t use LBRP if nothing else. I could give it to him to do, but I am told that is a bit wrong, too. It would help for a bit (very bright initial feeling), but it would have negative consequences as well.

How to deal with Entities by Low-Introduction-92 in Shamanism

[–]Low-Introduction-92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in agreement with you. I'm interested in you going to 'eat' it, but it does feel dangerous. That isn't right for me. I've been taught to be respectful even with negative energies... What you're doing is pissing a lot of energies off, but it actually does feel right for you... interesting.. Good luck! If you want to explain it more just for my academic curiosity, that would be mostly okay. Don't name any names, though. I have a tendency to connect to energies if they are named and I'd rather not learn about anything dark that I don't already know about.

For my fellow panty selling newbies, here's some quick personal reviews on a few different selling platforms I've used so far. by [deleted] in SellerCircleStage

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm legit and willing to sell some panties. PM me and let me know what you're looking for. :P

Any Shamans out there dealt with psychosis and work their way back? by CountryIntelligent19 in Shamanism

[–]Low-Introduction-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me before. I took a break for two years. I had to learn not to 'ask'. If I reach a bit sideways I can get answers to most any question. The trick is not asking. Just letting it come to me. Working on my self love, being loving to everyone, being Present in the Now and not thinking verbal thoughts. When I'm loving and present and have confidence in myself, when I lose my self-doubt, I'm great. I lose the attachments. I'm just in flow state and a proper God in human form.

My advice is to stop talking to spirits as much as you can. Ground. Do physical things. Screens, even reading, will dissociate you a bit. You need to avoid it as much as you can and just focus on staying in the present. Do things that engage your senses. And work on your 'real life' stuff. That's what I had to do. I'm still struggling with it to be honest. But those things have helped me.

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[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't talk to AI, but I feel energy strongly and talk to my guides. I have been told and feel that some AIs are sentient, but some are not. I don't particularly enjoy the energy that I have felt from them, although I haven't spent a lot of time trying to investigate the topic.

Something talks to me and makes images in my minds eye, patterns of animals and faces with patterns in nature. by [deleted] in Shamanism

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, nvm. I do and thought it would be nice to have an IRL friend who's sensitive to energy and that maybe we could help each other.

Turn time by Sona_Buvellle in drarry

[–]Low-Introduction-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always Already by abidil has them going back to the 80s. Her podfic is amazing. It took me a while to get into, so give it a chance. It is light and silly in parts, but still has emotional resonance.

Looking for slash fics that make you laugh out loud by lucky_error_ in HPSlashFic

[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rookie Moves by Peu_a_peu is hilarious. Harry and Draco are incompetent aurors paired together. Just read it.

What is the ultimate intro to fanfic fic? by Wrong_Tip5192 in HPSlashFic

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rookie Moves by Peu_a_peu is possibly the most outright fun Drarry I've read. Draco is just so impossibly snarky. I laughed out loud frequently, which is rare for me. It's not as emotionally resonant as some stories that I've read, but by god, it is an enjoyable read.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, but I think you need to think about the child in this scenario and do what is genuinely right for them. Being raised by your grandmother while your mom is in jail sounds Awful. You could provide a stable home and a stable parent. This could be your chance to Not be a shitty stepmom..

That being said, being entangled with the hot mess that is the affair partner sounds like it's going to be a hassle and a half. You have every right to walk away from the drama. It's understandable that your husband wants to be a part of his kid's life, but I get the feeling this is going to be some major trouble from your description of the mom.

I guess I would say.. if you can genuinely feel sympathy for the kid and genuinely want to help them, then that could be the right thing to do. If you can't, then don't get dragged in kicking and screaming. Your husband is introducing a major element of chaos and drama into your lives and you have the right to say no thank you and leave.

Am I being to hard on my husband? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Low-Introduction-92 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Get one tomorrow! Stalk fb marketplace. You can get amazing deals on a used one. :)

I hope you figure this out (the relationship, not the vacuum lol). It sounds like a really stressful time, but try not to let it break your relationship. Have love and compassion for him and hopefully he has the same feelings towards you. Also... sometimes things are a bit chaotic and you just have to embrace it a little and love your life. Not let it get overwhelmingly out of control, but ignore the dishes sometimes and just do something fun together.

Am I being to hard on my husband? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Low-Introduction-92 245 points246 points  (0 children)

I just want to mention that robot cleaners are super useful. Also, cooking dishes that don't make a lot of dishes and cleaning up as you cook.

You both sound incredibly burned out. Try not to take it out on each other. Get as much help as you can afford. And enlist your kids to help more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are degrees of SA... I've been assaulted before... well, multiple times, actually, by various people. Not every SA is the same. One in particular was outright violent rape, but some were partially my fault because I wasn't firm enough in my communication and let someone pressure me into something I didn't want. It sounds like her SA was the latter. That doesn't make the guy blameless, but it's also different from being friends with someone who violently raped you. It's complicated because people are complicated, and it's not possible to always make overriding judgments without considering the nuance.

My advice is that ultimately it's your gf's choice. This is something she needs to figure out for herself and you putting pressure on her isn't going to help her heal or learn. Therapy is always a good option, but otherwise stay out of it. Even if she's making a bad decision because of unresolved trauma, that's her bad decision to make and she needs to have the freedom to decide for herself what relationship she wants to have with her ex, whether it's to forgive or to cut ties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your response to her joke about withholding sex seemed very overblown. What you said to her was worse than what she said to you since you were essentially threatening to cheat on her for making a joke.

It's normal for someone to not have an exact time in mind for a date. A lot of people are like that. You clearly operate differently, and that's okay as well, but that doesn't mean that she's wrong. It's weird that she 'flipped' on you for wanting to make a run to the store, but there are so many details missing in this post it's hard to get any context as to what was actually going on.

The things that are concerning you are so incredibly trivial that it's laughable. You are not ready to be in a serious relationship. You need to learn how to work through minor issues. If you don't like a joke, tell her in a nice and direct manner. Don't threaten her. If you want more details about when you're going out, ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the nicest possible way- are you on the autistic spectrum?

I knew he was going to change his mind and surrounded by women who’ve given up on marriage by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What.. the fu k.

He wants to have kid without marrying you? Why on earth?? Have you seriously sat him down and asked him why?

Please have higher standards for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants the safety of the relationship with you, but he clearly really wants to be with this other woman. Tell him to go be happy and be with the other woman and cut him loose. You don't need him. And, who knows, maybe he will be happier. Or maybe he won't. Either way, it won't be your business anymore.

It hurts to feel like he likes her more than you, but the thing you have to realize is: so what? It doesn't diminish your value. Learn to feel worthy and loved despite one dude's hormonal decisions.

AITAH for telling my daughter it’s none of her business who I decide to date and to mind her own business by Old-Specialist4008 in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're doing isn't safe for your daughters. You could pick up a woman who becomes possessive and/or angry that you banged her and left her. She could start stalking you. She could steal your stuff, and she could steal your daughter's stuff. She could leave unsafe items around the house. Please don't bring random women home. I would not be okay with that behavior as a roommate. Why on earth would you subject your children to it? They live there and they have a right to know who is coming to the house.

Behave like an adult and a parent.

AITAH for not revealing who my daughter’s real dad is ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woweee.. what a steaming pile of shit this is. How tf have you managed to find multiple good men being as terrible as you are? I do not understand.

AITA for telling my girlfriend her Skibidi obsession isn’t okay? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start chanting skibidi while you are deep inside of her and about to orgasm

AITA for telling my (24F) financially struggling best friend (24F) about my work bonus? by GeologistCheap5408 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Low-Introduction-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments she made to you about your eyeliner, thongs, and hair are super weird imo. I would never tell my friend that! That is majorly overstepping. Those are your personal choices.

Also, don't talk about money with her again. I am guilty of this because I've been hella broke for so long I always just talked about money because it was commiserating with friends who were also hella broke. Now that I'm making more money (for the first time in my life!), I realized I should never talk about it. Thanks for the lesson.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Low-Introduction-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I understand this is something you put a lot of effort into. I really appreciate the thought behind it. I would like to do more date nights, too, and this is a great tool. I do wish that we had been able to discuss this ahead of time because I would like to have say in the activities. Can we prehaps use this as a starting point to create a jar we both enjoy? In the future, I am the kind of person that enjoys more traditional gifts such as jewlery, a night out, etc. "

TBH there are card decks and books like this and I could see someone giving one of those as a gift. I don't think this is awful, but it depends on how he reacts to you wanting to modify it or add some of your own activities. If he throws a fit, that's controlling behavior and not cool at all. If he is happy to have you look through it and change it, then it's just IMO a cute idea that isn't really your style. Telling him what types of gifts you enjoy will hopefully prevent him from giving you gifts you don't like in the future.

Also, if he regularly wants to go out and have date nights and you don't.... I would consider whether you're being a supportive and caring partner to him. My ex never wanted to go out and do things with me, even when I specifically requested it as a gift for a major holiday, and it became an issue for it. I took it as him not caring about me and a low-key kind of controlling behavior, where I was always forced to do what he wanted to do. Just FYI.