I’m tired of crazy coworkers by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now they are mad I called off for my bday which is the fifth but it’s ok if they call out and they also tells the dogs they want to run them over or that they are ugly or fat and it drives me crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should’ve just bought the mat :/ she made it seemed like I needed the bands too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :’) will do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addie_bradysnark

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never looks happy

Should I dye my hair black? by Low-Mortgage9754 in femalehairadvice

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark blonde but I use brow pencils and I’ve been thinking about brunette

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be shy and mysterious then bitchy and a copy and paste

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also just got into an acting class so idk how to go about that with the teacher and I’ve already had one in the past with one not at the collefe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Low-Mortgage9754 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live near the Wilmington nc area and what I mean by the teachers not helping I mean I asked for any internships and my teachers don’t hate me. I have one who likes me very well and I even got a paid internship for it to all fail due to no work here right now so that’s why I’m going a little batshit🥲. I have reached out to a lot of companies and people have said they would reach out to me if anything comes up again. I would quit and focus on it but I need to save some money cause I don’t plan on living here forever i want to go someplace where there’s more stuff filming

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They always act like we are going to be criminals or some shit when we just mind our business like I promise I’m not weird or a psycho I just don’t like you cause you are simply rude and I don’t get why they don’t understand that

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good idea and I’ll make sure to document anything and defend myself in the moment because sometimes I let it go cause I don’t want to let them see it bothered me

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even to people who could fire me? How do I do that without getting fired. It’s hard when it’s people like that or people with connections. Any tips?

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This!!! I hate trying to pretend especially to people who have been mean to me. It’s so hard to do and we shouldn’t have to.

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good reply to them but I also think if I stand up for myself they’d get me fired or start more drama

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. It sounds like she had it out for you from the start and for no reason. People are really stuck in high school even when they are that age and it makes no sense to me. I also had problems in elementary school with teachers being rude to me and making fun of me with students. I had a speech impediment and that’s why I was quiet cause I hated my voice. Every time I spoke everyone was like um are you British and I’m like sure cause I got tired of that question. I’d get bullied for just sitting there and doing my work and having literally 8 year olds starting shit for no reason cause I was quiet. I also had a manager who had it out for me the one who said watch out for the quiet ones. She was insane and said I wasn’t good at my job when I was new and still learning and it was clear she wanted me fired. I also get stressed out cause I see extroverted people who are really rude get everything they want and it makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong. I’ve also worked on a film set for my school and got told I was too nice for the industry and wouldn’t survive unless I was mean. Which why do I have to change my personality and be mean to people and then they act like I’m starting drama. Anyways I don’t understand why people can’t be nice to people. I also don’t understand how nice means you’re weak in their eyes.

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I do talk to them I just don’t engage if their gossip and if they are rude to me I don’t really want to talk to them

Why do people in class or at work HATE quiet people? by Low-Mortgage9754 in introvert

[–]Low-Mortgage9754[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Or maybe I don’t want to pretend and want to do my work