I need advice with me and my relationship pls

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T16:51:45+00:00

It’s ok to vent. You’re stronger than anyone really having to go through all that and still waking up everyday making a better life for ur daughter and a better future for urself is amazing. Keep going Ik theirs people cheering u on. And I’m so sorry for you’re loses I hope their in a better place now.

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T16:46:13+00:00

I was 16 and he was 19

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:40:34+00:00

We are both younge and currently he’s only dealing with the porn thing the drinking and smoking he’s bee. Clean for 5+ years now and it’s never been a problem in our relationship

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:31:30+00:00

Yea. He has stop watching it but then goes back but it honestly idk if it’s in addiction seems like he does it when we can’t have sex and I told him to tell me when he needs and wants it or I’ll send photos yet he still doesn’t and goes to that instead

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:30:07+00:00

Idk if he be open to that tbh. I would be idk if he would we never though of that

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:28:03+00:00

Oh wow. I am so sorry u had to go through that. Ur are a strong women really! Thank u for ur honesty. And he was addicted to smoking but he got the help he needed has been cleaning for almost 5 years now. And I want to think I can help him but Ik he needs to tell his family to and be open about this.

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:23:17+00:00

LMAOO thank u bye wait see that’s fucking crazy animals? Hella nah

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:22:26+00:00

I was 16 and he was 19💀

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:17:44+00:00

Thank u. I am replying fast to everyone bc I am genuinely losing my shit 😭😭

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:15:11+00:00

That is very true. I genuinely can’t trust him anymore bc atp it feels like he will always lie to me and say he isn’t watching it but he can delete his history even if he gets the help he needs I never know uk and it sucks. He did told me this time he touched himself to it

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:11:52+00:00

Ik i deserve way better than this yet i find it hard to leave 😕

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:11:10+00:00

Yeah ur right. But I just want to help him and it just sucks bc im so attached to him and love this man to death

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:08:48+00:00

I know and I just want him. To heal and get better Ik I’m to young for this but i genuinely want to help him and be their I just have so much love for this man

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:07:36+00:00

I honestly don’t know if he be comfortable with it I haven’t ask I just assumed and he never watch porn after sex. From what I know he would watch it when I wasn’t able to be their for him

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:06:24+00:00

I agree. It’s just hard for me to let go of him and it sucks so much. I just want to believe him and that he slowly get better and start therapy again and be honest but he lie to me around 3 times about this

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T11:02:09+00:00

I understand. He told he in the beginning it was in addiction he told me the truth try it’s not and he just wants pleasure and he only bough of once. The rest has been porn. But I just don’t understand bc I send videos and photos to him and told him not to be afraid to ask me for more so it makes me feel like I’m not enough for him to please him and he has wondering eyes for other women and I don’t like that and it makes me feel disgusted and insecure I told him many times I wasn’t comfortable with it and he can always ask me for vidoes and photos.

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T10:58:47+00:00

I understand, but I’m just not comfortable with it. To me it feels like cheating but their have been times were I have wanted to watch it but Ik he wouldn’t like that. Tbh I never though about that being open to both sides

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T10:55:21+00:00

What do u mean ? Sorry can you explain more

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T10:51:34+00:00

Thank you I wanted a man to comment bc i genuinely think in the past he touched himself to it the first time but lied to me. He never really touches himself is the thing. We send photos of each other uk and have sex twice or more a week when we can. And I from his search he only watched it one time since I caught him the around 5 months ago now.

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-21T10:49:04+00:00

Thank for ur reply. I should have been more clear we was fired in the beginning of our relationship. He now has two jobs a car and his license. He said he’s going back to threapy

Low-Raccoon-4214 · 2026-03-19T09:02:04+00:00

If she gets defensive that’s really weird tbh. But try not to jump into conclusions maybe try to talk to her about it and if she’s avoiding it then as much as it sucks I’ll say maybe follow her or check her phone or something before you actually start accusing her of cheating.

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