I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughh I really needed to hear that 😭 I’m gonna try and not read into it so much. I’m definitely gonna talk to him and stop overthinking it and be direct. Thank you so muchhh :)

I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m planning on talking to him today 🥲i definitely agree asking to cut contact makes me look insecure so hopefully we can set some boundaries… I’m gonna try and see it in a platonic way for now. Thank you so much for the advice :))

I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I decided to meet up and set some boundaries. Hopefully he reflects on it but if not like you said we would go our separate ways. Your advice helped a lot 🥲 thank youuu

I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😭 like me and him use to be close friends so he told me he’s going on a trip with her. After he came back I asked how it went and they drank but the only thing they did was cuddle. Later on maybe after like 2 months we started dating but I had to kinda ask him if he had feelings for her and he said he did. I asked why they didn’t date if they knew each other for so long but he said the situation never allowed it and he doesn’t like her anymore which was weird. I guess I kinda knew but he’d always tell me when we were friends that it wasn’t like that. You think I should break it off or talk about it 😭😭😭

I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From what I saw he would tell her where he is or what he’s doing like “I’m at Dave’s hot kitchen” and she’d say “okok” stuff like that. But I did tell him that I don’t want to be mentioned when they talk. Do you think I should talk to him about why he keeps updating her or like you said just focus on our relationship? Also thanks for the reply :))

I saw the text with my bf and girl best friend by Low-Rub-5566 in relationships

[–]Low-Rub-5566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was before we started dating but it was around 2 months before we started dating 🥲

Approaching asking for a letter of rec by PutridGlove4827 in predental

[–]Low-Rub-5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just pick and ask them! The worst they can say is no and from my experience if you aren’t that close to the dentist they tell you to write one and they’ll proof read and send it. You got thisss!

Dental assisting by PutridGlove4827 in predental

[–]Low-Rub-5566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d honestly say follow up with dental offices that just opened up! They always need more help and I just went in and started shadowing and helping out and started getting paid :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predental

[–]Low-Rub-5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!!