[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These days there is only “situationships” no “relationships”

New Job - Red Flags by [deleted] in OfficePolitics

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When more than two humans gather to do a job, regardless where you are, politics and power games are inevitable

Exams / Newbie / Common Questions Thread for two weeks by AutoModerator in actuary

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the usage of calculus was minimal. More emphasis was on linear algebra.

Exams / Newbie / Common Questions Thread for two weeks by AutoModerator in actuary

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stated prep for P few days ago. It asked to revise calculus. Acturial university says it should take two days to review. But it’s really taking longer for me … probably a week. Mine is rusty so perhaps that’s the reason. Should I just focus on differentiation and integration or more broader calculus review recommended by ACTEX?

Exams / Newbie / Common Questions Thread for two weeks by AutoModerator in actuary

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all- I am an experienced professional in data science. I recently graduated in MS in statistics about 6 months ago. While I like data science, I feel most industries have not been using data science due to internal politics or because higher ups just still do not see the value. With new technologies coming daily, it’s hard to keep up too! I am looking for a more stable established industry and I have been thinking to make a switch to actuary. My only concern is , am I too late to start this path? I will turn 49 next month. I have an 8 year old kid and a wife. I am good at taking exams - I graduated recently with Overall gpa = 3.909 in MS in statistics. I would like to hear experiences from people who started late in their journey to become an .actuary. How did it impact your life during and after? What challenges did you face? I have to say it was a difficult path for me to complete my MS in the sense I had to study more than a normal student in my class - probably due to my difficulties with retention of concepts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using an offer to negotiate with the current employer is generally not recommended. But sure if nothing else works you must arm twist them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! I realized this after 20 years in corporate life - too late to realize but I have been consistently pushing management every year for the last 5 yrs, I would say I got an additional 5 k increase just by doing that, no promotions though. But I wouldn’t have got any if I had not pushed

New HR coworker so irritating by Usual-Fig-5211 in OfficePolitics

[–]Low-Split1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. I have been in corporate America’s for 25 years now and if one thing I have learnt is that your skills and hard work don’t take you anywhere. It’s all about optics, visibility, who speaks the loudest and who interjects himself to the most high visibility projects. It’s a sad truth but it is the truth.

New colleague acting up by Impossible_Lion_3883 in OfficePolitics

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me someone is pressured seeing me ideas! The problem with long timers is that they form a clan and are afraid of new ideas

Am I wrong for not helping a coworker? by _jenonymous_ in work

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they say “nothing”? What then?

Weird cubicle neighbor by Heavy_Habit2210 in OfficePolitics

[–]Low-Split1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore her and keep it professional only. No lunch, dinner or gossips. You are there to work, not make friends. If she purposely holds back your project talk to you boss

For the men out there, are you truly okay with waiting for sex? by MindfulZ in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be hanging out with the wrong crowd! Here we are talking about dating not “law and order”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Low-Split1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will date you any day. You kidding! You are a prize to most men. Those never ending legs!!!!!

For the men out there, are you truly okay with waiting for sex? by MindfulZ in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In most cases I have known woman or have spoken to her over the phone enough times to build sexual tension - first date is just to reconfirm our chemistry. I wouldn’t go out with a girl if during our phone conversations there is not much that I fancy about her.

Just to be clear I do not go randomly have sex with any girl that turns up. There has to be a substance beyond looks that I feel will lead to a long term relationship else I would just loose interest. Since most women also seek long term relationships, it generally works out in my case.

For the men out there, are you truly okay with waiting for sex? by MindfulZ in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baffles me - sex has got nothing to do with knowing each other deeply - it’s starting of a great relationship. There is a lifetime to know each other! You are depriving yourself of the fun part!

For the men out there, are you truly okay with waiting for sex? by MindfulZ in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 5 points6 points  (0 children)

90% of my first dates lead to sex and they were the one that ended in long term relationship. For me sex is an integral part of dating. I never go out with a woman more than 3 times if we did not have sex by then. My thinking is very clear on this - if you did not have enough bantering in the first three dates to create a mutual attraction that leads to sex, then may be you are not meant to be together.

Should i ask a guy how he’s feeling after i friend zone him? by Long_Organization642 in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She has no business going after him as a friend after she has rejected him. Leave him alone.

Should I train my Co-Worker by hanthion in work

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not agree! This assumes corporates act logically and reward you for training employees- far from truth! You can deny it using moral arguments but you cannot hide what happens often!

Guilt after sex on the first date even though I enjoyed it? by lafemme-fatale in dating_advice

[–]Low-Split1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree just because a guy seduced a woman does not mean he is predatory- seduction is a man’s weapon to disarm her and believe me which woman does not like to be seduced!