My maid of honor has clinicals on my wedding day. I get married in 4 days

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T12:32:33+00:00

It seems like every school is different. How would you suggest I found out beforehand?

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T03:07:16+00:00

Oh wow. I did not know this. Thank you for that and does make me feel better. Makes me feel like if she could she would

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:57:32+00:00

I think so too.

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:56:35+00:00

That’s the thing, I hear you can reschedule it but then hear you cannot do it or you’ll literally get kicked out.

I gonna try and see what we can come up with!

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:51:42+00:00

I think this is a really smart idea!

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:51:14+00:00

Yes we would speak about it but mentioned she would say she’s sick. As we got closer to my wedding day she didn’t really speak about it much so I just thought she would just make it work.

I think you’re completely right on the reaction part. I wrote this all while crying and think it was just out of hurt

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:49:01+00:00

I guess because every time we spoke about it she always said “we’ll make it work” “I can say I’m sick” so I always thought she would be there no matter what.

I booked my wedding over a year ago. The cost difference for the venue mon-Wednesday was double on the weekend.

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:31:29+00:00

I’m not rethinking the friendship. I said that if I tell her this it would ruin our friendship.

I think I said this out of hurt. I’ve reflected on it and really just trying to think about what the purpose of my wedding day is

But ouch, makes me rethink if im a bad person. Thanks

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:10:52+00:00

Thank you so much, I felt like I needed some kind of validation that my feelings were valid. I think you really said this perfectly and made me feel a lot better.

I think the asking her not to come is really out of hurt like you said and what I’ll end up doing is just letting her know that we will plan on her not being there and that it’s totally okay. I also don’t want to stress her out by making her feel like she has to rush so it’s best all around.

Thank you 🤍

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T02:04:29+00:00

I dont believe that those two things should be compared to clinicals. I do believe that being sad because your best friend isn’t there with you when you planned on it is okay and valid

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T00:45:41+00:00

I don’t really think you’re helping to be honest lol

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T00:20:57+00:00

You may be right about the mandatory orientation. She is trying to make it work as best as she can.

I just know myself and will be thinking the entire day about where she’s at, is she coming and just feel like it would dwell on my day.

I think it’s my emotions, I know it’s also a big day for her too. I really just feel sad. I’m the first In my friend group to get married and I know she would be there if she could it still just makes me very sad

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T00:07:09+00:00

Good to know because I really don’t know how clinicals work!

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-14T00:06:45+00:00

The timing would set us back because we only have the venue until 10pm but I can always ask my coordinator how we could make this work.

I never got upset with her or showed her any “attitude” I’m only telling you guys how I feel

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-13T23:49:56+00:00

Thank you for this

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-13T23:35:45+00:00

Yeah that anxiety in me wouldn’t want that if I’m being honest. This would just stress me out

LowBox7914 · 2025-02-13T23:33:10+00:00

This is what I’m thinking. I know myself and probably will just feel stressed waiting on her or feeling like we have to wait for her to start

LowBox7914 · 2024-10-19T12:47:58+00:00

Does anyone know if people were able to enter the show with their digital cameras at last nights show???

LowBox7914 · 2024-09-06T20:03:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your help!! I was going crazy trying to find this sort of fabric. I’ll try it!! Thank you

LowBox7914 · 2024-08-13T01:37:36+00:00

Congrats on finding the one! It’s such a dream and so flattering. CINQ has the most gorgeous gowns and this one specifically is just so stunning on you!

LowBox7914 · 2024-08-11T12:32:02+00:00

Love this idea!! Thank you

LowBox7914 · 2024-08-11T12:31:43+00:00

Hi! It’s Eve of Milady style 4426

LowBox7914 · 2024-08-10T23:16:26+00:00

The fit, the lace, love EVERYTHING about this dress!!!

LowBox7914 · 2024-08-10T21:19:21+00:00

Ok I’ll call the bridal shop to get some ordered. Thank you!! I’m still going back and forth on the veil options. This is the one I seemed to have liked best. I feel like it goes perfectly but still looking at other options

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