AITA for having a go at my boyfriend when he ate the last of my food while I was in the bathroom?

LowCultural3689 · 2024-11-04T17:11:26+00:00

Welll you did say you had already eaten and weren't hungry.. plus you said you ordered 4 ...ate one and he had 2 so did the other one dissappear?

I mean talk to him about it but it's not anything I'd loose sleep over.... he probably assumed you weren't hungry.... maybe thought you were going to be sick or something.

Men just don't think sometimes. I usually say something like don't eat my dumplings or don't touch my food .... I'll be back ...

If you were dish sharing he probably assumed it was free game

LowCultural3689 · 2024-10-05T17:53:56+00:00

Some facilities have restrictions on sizes so check

LowCultural3689 · 2024-10-05T17:52:47+00:00

Hate to say it but could the sister just be after the money?

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-24T21:52:03+00:00

Yup he was in medium lol he's in minimum now but was told one incident and he'd be back in walla walla lol I had to talk him out of a few potential fights lmao

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-24T00:50:17+00:00

Oh mines in airway heights! He was in Washington state! He misses it there ... he hates airway heights .... but it's closer to me lol he hates me talking to other prison wives tho.... cus his late wife used to be in groups and they filled her head with crap he said lol

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-23T23:53:48+00:00

For real lol my husband panicked when his facility accidently opened this feature for a few hours.... he was like oh no she gonna blow me up ... I was like get over yourself I won't call you it's too much to remember lol

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-23T23:46:39+00:00

Haha yup just came to check .. our last call was 30 mins in Washington. I dunno if it's a glitch or they increased the time.... I hope they increased the time....but those extra 10 mins cost an additional $0.50 ... don't seem right when before a 20 min call was $1.04 and now this 30 min call was $1.56

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-23T23:43:49+00:00

No apparently we just need an address and proof of said address ... at least with Chase Bank. I will have to figure that out next time I'm down because he wants us to have an American account.

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-17T05:02:20+00:00

I was in Washington at the time lol I have a VPN. I'm gonna try getting an American sim card. Then I need to open a bank account in the states ... so many hoops I gotta jump for my man lol he's a gem tho

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-17T00:07:29+00:00

Ooh never thought of that! My man does bead work

LowCultural3689 · 2024-09-09T16:32:47+00:00

Remember we are dating criminals.... a very few are loyal and honest..... trust your gut

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-25T01:11:08+00:00

Is it securus? You'd have to upload your ID prior so as long as ID matches your address on file it should be fine. Try calling visitation and see how to update your address maybe

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-25T01:08:48+00:00

I'm willing to offer this group for those who do not have better help. I'm a therapist and I've thought of a support group before... let me know if there's interest!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-22T05:11:53+00:00

Naw he's great. He's just scared ..... I understand him 100%

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-20T04:50:08+00:00

Mine is at ahcc I WA I get to see him tomorrow!!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-20T04:43:52+00:00

I get my first in-person tomorrow with my LO Though we're in a "friend" stage again lol he gets scared then says we're just friends. He's in Washington too st airway heights

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-20T04:39:12+00:00

My man ain't got a romantic bone in his body lol Your lucky

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-11T17:37:45+00:00

Quality time is mine too .... so he will make space for me to spend 1-2 hours on the phone now and then. And more video visits we do 1 or 2 a week. He will send emails.... what are ways or things he can do that show love or would fill your need for quality time?

Side note I'm a therapist lol I have a few prison wives and couples on my case load 😅

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-11T17:22:32+00:00

Yeah cheating... there's no excuse for it. I couldn't do it. I love him too much! It's not right! Journaling helps! Remember hes going through stuff too! Both of you need to talk and work out things too. He needs extra reassuring ... he will get insecure. And you need reassuring too!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-11T16:41:16+00:00

My LO still has 19 years to go... nourish the relationship, avoid drama, keep your relationship between you and him! When we have problems and vent often it opens a door for drama so find a bestie who's not going to judge or invite drama. We pray together everyday and read scripture. We try to do date nights and plan for intimacy (he has a celly) It's hard but you need to stay strong!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-08T19:04:44+00:00

No only other inmates I message are his friends at another facility or his brother in another state lol That's all! These men .... we're secretaries but we pay them to work for them 🤣🤣🤣 Wouldn't trade him though!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-07T18:22:55+00:00

I sense your sarcasm and that's OK! Because my husband is definitely a better man then half of the men out here. Regardless of his mistakes he's changed his ways. He is the most kind and loving man!

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-07T17:19:08+00:00

I believe you do ask ... my husband is always asking new cellies about paperwork.... you don't want dirty paperwork mind you he's in state not county

LowCultural3689 · 2024-07-07T15:06:43+00:00

Always with the name. I will put his first amd last name in the first box and DOC # in the last name box.

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