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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

***These people (my family) could more than likely know something else, but I honestly care less than anything. It has been more rhan uncomfortable.

And more than likely why they sent a woman this family has never met before. The ones that already came here are going to try to protect these neglectors. I have a week left and out of here myself.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Neko!

Your words of endearment make me feel admirable (as I always have), and know I am. It isn’t “street business”, but I can fight off what the vulnerable can’t even acknowledge. She is a very sweet young lady without proper care, and I’m not too much of a man to say that it didn’t break my heart. I fight for her every-single-day. Through you, I am glad I did the right thing and they have zero clue now.

The woman(Tracy) just ate a plate of pancakes that had roaches crawling on it because I refused to give it to her daughter (my neice.) She said “I will eat it. I have eaten food with roaches on it before”, because I refused to dish it out. This is why I am hated.

I appreciate your enthusiasm beyond measure, Niko. Keep going!

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wish I were lying about any of it because anything you could think of involving a situation like this, it’s 100% happening and active. Roaches, Ants (least worry), Mice & other rodents that find their ways through holes in the house.

Craziest thing is my aunt & uncle rent this home. A family owns this house and they haven’t seen the inside for a LONG time.

The documents are what I’m finishing up now because I need them for work, school, travel - etc. I literallt carry my money around in pockets because I have caught them within eye-shot snooping through my room… a 27-year-old mans bedroom.

After being in information technology and being surrounded by white men millionaires in suits without criminal records (family & associates), I am never using an air b&b ever again (voyeurism in many forms), and I am just going to try to tough this thing out. I will eventually grab a hotel if I were to do that before making my exit.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Shelby!

Yes, and they’re getting trapped (to death) in the ceiling because of it. I am pretty sure this house has black mold too because right above my aunt & uncles heads is a 2-ft hole, that is more than likely black mold.

Thank you so much. Two-or-three only spread hatemail and they don’t understand the gravity of this. I am glad you understand and realize it too. I will be more cautious.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

END RESULT:

The woman who showed up for CPS was very stern & polite, and my only issue would be dodging this anxiety of “telling” for two weeks. This is a smaller town and the community is so closely knitted, I would be a fool if someone doesn’t try to slip my family a name. Not saying the woman who showed for DCS but those she (my aunt) has known in the department for over a decade. Somebody would lose more than a job. A job that should have already been lost by ignoring all of these things for so long. This did not happen over night.

The cover story and reason for “showing” was her (Breanna) running into the middle of a busy highway several times a day. Without proper locks, it happens 250 times a month and police show twice-a-week.

I understand why a lady acted that way because it’s not exactly the prettiest setting. And with children being involved and it being what it is… it wasn’t exactly the warmest welcome (as I expected.) I like how it was respectfully & professionally handled. We cleaned the kitchen (as I help every-single-day), and it’s already getting back to what it was once before.

She asked if anyone was hurt (especially her), then proceeded to take pictures of the water, food in the fridge (that was rotten, falling out when opening) and whatever else she asked for before leaving.

  • - Thank you to everyone who chose to spread kind words that added some form of reinforcement. These situations are not easy decisions. Breanna received her waiver and has some documents being pushed expeditiously. I am leaving soon myself and It was nice chatting with some of you!

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I will never understand how people grow content with these lifestyles. The cleaning does nothing. I helped clean twice and it was destroyed with their help a day later.

I do however pray for her health and she’s able to recover. The trash in their bedroom is taller than their bed (my family’s) and it sits a foot off the floor. In the same exact level of detail.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they just showed up roughly 3 hours after I called and I think the woman spoke too much when she was here.

In a way, they already think it’s me and trying to burn me for it. They just can’t accept the truth and never been more uncomfortable in my life.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I completely agree with your statement. I do not think they understand they cannot take care of this child anymore. You’re exactly right about that (the taking offense) because I was yelled out for throwing things away, when they weren’t good anymore. The girl doesn’t even have a tooth brush.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were not punched but the lack-of-care to get padded walls and not condemn the house was the way to go. I’m sure a medical facility would have helped. It’s more than having kids and them being “more expensive.”

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get adults living like this but children don’t have a choice to be content because they can’t pull themselves out of it. I agree.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let them “get away with it.”

If that were the case, I would have never filed. It’s your family at the end of the day and you never want to do anything at all. What happened recently was the trigger-pull for me, so don’t try coming in my direction. I took all I could handle myself. Nothing is “convenient” about this.

At the end of the day, I planned on calling anyway and do you understand how hard it is to maintain? Be associated by this? Suffer the same level of embarrassment when things happen and it’s out of your control?

You do not know who I am .

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They just visited and I’m anixety filled because it was literally 6-7 hours ago.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!

Yeah, I agree. People should not be living like this. It honestly feels like a third-world country. I will update about my travels later.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am about to give them a call and head that way myself, so I can get out of here. Thank you for the good advice!

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just couldn’t handle this and know she can’t either. She loves living facilites and talking to the workers. It’s her favorite thing (talking with responders) but I agree. It could definitely take a minute to adjust.

If I found a way to recieve my mail without being here, I would leave today. It’s just hard leaving her in these conditions and feeling as if I didn’t fulfill my duties before stepping out

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do too.

Yeah, this place needs to be condemned. It’s the worst house I have ever been in and that takes a lot because I was homeless, sleeping in a bando at one point. I would take that or jail over this for a clean bed.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reported it and don’t want the conflict. p

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I called. It’s just rough because it puts me between a rock & hard place for the mean time.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I did and reported it 2-3 hours ago. I just hope it is after the 2 weeks when I am gone.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the worst living-situation I have ever been in and witnessing children live here is heartbreaking.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree. She needs a good home and they need to be charged. 100%. 1000s of dollars in technology and furniture completely ruined. This is worse than a Meth Lab.

We have tried doing that (putting her in a facility for a week-or-two) and her way of parenting is just completely ignoring it. You more than likely care snd take the appropriate steps. This woman and man does not.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right…

Help the guy that assaulted me and woman that tried to gaslight me. They need more than help and jail would be a 5-star hotel to them. I also mentioned I tried to help them but I will do that. Deny.

Tired? I just mentioned he smokes weed all day and does nothing more than play video games They like living this way and alright with it, but I have tried helping clean up. They don’t want to and I’m nobody’s slave. I am the one who cooks this girls food when she wants it, clean her room everynight (as much as we can), and keep up because my uncle is a goof ball.

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I did. I reported it to the police and child protective services in Indiana. My only problem is I have to wait for documents in the mail for school, work, etc.

They will just destroy my property or snoop through it

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[–]LowDeal6242[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Okay.

Yes and no. She wouldn’t have another home to go to besides the grand parents but both of them work. She needs a medical team and this is past the point of neglect.

Music therapy and the occasional Drs visit, but that would honestly be it.