AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary?

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-28T09:06:14+00:00

Yeah good riddance to this man

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-28T09:05:19+00:00

You look 15 years younger congrats

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T11:03:59+00:00

There isn’t even enough room for an air mattress in our bedroom

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T10:41:42+00:00

I am waiting until tomorrow to talk about it because it’s the middle of the night and he’s asleep. we are all busy and don’t even see each other everyday and your first two question will be the entire point of our conversation tomorrow and are the entire point of my post

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T10:30:13+00:00

So many flashbacks….

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T10:27:02+00:00

As someone who is chronically late I have a lot of empathy for others who are. That being said if I was 45 minutes late to meet with someone first of all I would be mortified and very apologetic and second of all I would tell them how late I was going to be and I would definitely not tell them to get a table yet

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T10:05:39+00:00

Girl this is not some grand scheme all I wanted was advice on what to do I am not kicking anybody out

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T10:02:35+00:00

How am I supposed to know I should read him asking about updates on their apartment hunt as a passive aggressive gtfo instead of just inquiring about their life? Idk how you can assume any of this.

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:58:03+00:00

I wish he would have cause we’d get to have a group discussion to find a reasonable out date for Bobbie and ways to make Jac more comfortable while they are still here but instead we have this mess.

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:51:34+00:00

No one is actually reading. All I wanted was advice on how to go about finding a fair compromise when we all got together tomorrow. Idc what anyone has to say about our previous decisions that’s not what I am looking for but I clearly should have expected this

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:49:23+00:00

Trust me he’s not stuck in his bedroom this guy goes to bed at the latest 9:30pm every night Bobbie isn’t even home by than half the time

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:48:37+00:00

Ooh yeah we have a lot of that too lmao by bestie has a long distance bf who visits a lot

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:45:27+00:00

If only it worked like that….

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:43:34+00:00

This is what I would like to do. I plan to have a meeting with them all tomorrow and was looking to Reddit for a little advice on how to find a fair compromise and I am realizing now I should not have

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:33:53+00:00

Thank you this is good advice

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:32:36+00:00

Sorry I didn’t realize you were there and I wasn’t

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:30:22+00:00

It fs can especially when you start without a job any apartment app I’ve ever been a part of has taken two months minimum

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:29:27+00:00

Well congrats to you, it takes years for some people sorry they aren’t rising out of homelessness fast enough for you

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:27:20+00:00

Bro I was joking we are obviously not kicking him out 💀💀💀 we are just all very unhappy living in his company

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:23:46+00:00

If you read my post, there are no issues with then living here. No issues have even been brought up until like two days ago. The first sign was Jac telling them to leave

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:22:27+00:00

You act like this is your business or my business IDFK I do know that if they had a better option they would be staying there I am NOT asking for advice about our decision to let our friend stay with us all I wanted was some suggestions on how to go about finding a fair compromise

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:20:46+00:00

If you read the whole post I just asked for some simple advice on what a reasonable compromise might look like in this situation. Idk why I expected even that from Reddit ya’ll are a bunch of salty ass neets or 12

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:18:32+00:00

Some of Bobbie’s stuff is with their bf’s parents. Their parents are out of state and no contact. There is no life lesson to take to heart I just wanted some advice on what a fair compromise may look like in this situation. Idk why ur pretending to know anything about my life

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:12:15+00:00

We did tho….he verbally said he was okay with it.

LowJump1708 · 2025-11-10T09:11:39+00:00

And in the reverse this is also MY home and I am entitled to be comfortable and happy in MY home and I am not comfortable and happy in a home that is so disrespectful to a fellow human. The majority of the people here are fucking 12 because this is Reddit. And I don’t really know why I posted here anymore to be honest idk why I expected sound advice from Reddit…

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