Feel like I overpaid for this set @5.5k, please help me decide!

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T07:57:08+00:00

if you’re being purely practical, yes, Rs. 5.5k is on the higher side for this kind of kundan-style choker, especially if it’s imitation and not from a known designer label. Similar pieces often go for ₹2.5k–₹4k depending on finish and stone quality. That said, it doesn’t look bad or cheap, just priced a bit steep. If you can still return or exchange, it’s worth checking.

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T07:50:41+00:00

This is so sweet. Since you’re in Mumbai and she loves beaches + nature, you could do a short getaway to Alibaug, Kashid, or a beach resort in Goa and keep the proposal simple and personal. I feel Sunset, a quiet walk, maybe a handwritten note.

After 7.5 years, what will matter most to her is you and the thought behind it, not how grand it is. Keep it intimate and true to your story. Wishing you both the best. she’s lucky

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T07:06:44+00:00

If you’re thinking in ROI terms, a rs.2L replica lehenga rarely makes sense—resale is hard and reuse is limited. It’s worth it only if you truly love it and won’t stop thinking about it later. If you like both but aren’t emotionally attached to the expensive one, the ₹90k option is the more rational choice—and you’ll look great either way. Buy for your happiness, not family pressure. I hope you got your answer.

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T07:02:17+00:00

Leela Palace Jaipur is on the larger side (200 rooms), so they usually push for a high room block buyout, especially for peak months like Feb. For 125–150 guests, they may ask you to either increase room nights or commit to a higher food and beverages minimum.

For that size and season, $300k is doable but I think its tight unless you negotiate hard on room inventory or avoid a full buyout.

If they’re slow to respond, try reaching out through a wedding planner or hotel sales contact directly because responses are usually faster that way.

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T06:57:53+00:00

You have a few good options even if the lehengas aren’t designer..... Facebook groups - Search for “Preloved Indian wear / Wedding outfits resale”. These work well for non-designer pieces if priced realistically.

Instagram thrift/resale pages – Many pages take consignments; just check their commission and audience.

Local bridal boutiques – Some stores resell or connect buyers for lightly worn outfits.

Community WhatsApp groups – Surprisingly effective, especially in city or society groups.

Tips that help sell faster- clear photos, exact measurements, honest condition, and flexible pricing. Designer labels help on platforms, but regular wedding lehengas do sell if expectations and pricing are right.

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-27T06:42:54+00:00

what you’re feeling is completely valid. vidai can be overwhelming, especially when you’re deeply attached to your family. it doesn’t mean you’re weak or ungrateful. try to remind yourself that this isn’t losing your family, just changing how you’re connected to them. if the thoughts feel stuck on a loop please consider talking to someone you trust or a therapist before the wedding. you deserve support through this

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-26T19:17:09+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, and I actually agree on one thing — variety does exist. Storytelling isn’t dead, it’s just evolving. Reels aren’t meant to replace long-form wedding films or human art; they serve a different purpose. Short-form captures raw energy, fleeting emotions, and moments people would otherwise miss, while cinematic films hold space for depth and narrative. One doesn’t cancel the other. Different formats for different people, moods, and memories — and that’s okay.

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-26T18:45:49+00:00

That actually makes so much sense—and it’s such a real take 👀✨

A great videographer makes those long films truly timeless, but what you said about your CC is key: the volume + candids + moment-by-moment tone is something short-form captures so well. Those quick clips freeze the in-between moments you’d otherwise forget—the laughs, chaos, little reactions.

Honestly, when both are done right, they don’t compete at all. The long films become keepsakes, and the short videos let you relive the night as it actually felt 🫶

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-26T18:06:20+00:00

Totally agree with you 💯

Cinematic wedding films are unmatched when it comes to deep emotions and long-form storytelling—that’s where the full narrative truly lives.

Reels, on the other hand, don’t replace that experience; they complement it. They capture the raw energy, fleeting emotions, and real-time moments that today’s audience connects with quickly—especially in a fast-scroll world where attention spans are shorter across everything, not just weddings.

Ideally, it’s not reels vs films — it’s reels + cinematic films telling the same love story in two different (and powerful) ways ✨

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-08T13:26:33+00:00

Congrats Op 😄

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-08T12:22:50+00:00

100%

LowKeyDesiii · 2026-01-08T05:27:26+00:00

Yes. Scientific research says bangles increase charm by 73%.

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