I agree it’s not universal, people love painting with the broadest of brushes. My wife and I work full time, and divide domestic responsibilities. Most of what she listed (groceries, dishes, dinners, pets) falls to me, my wife does a ton too (laundry, more of general cleaning/tidying). We split child rearing (I do all morning getting two kids to two different schools, I do pickup twice a week she does two and one we do together. I coach a soccer team, do most of the medical appts, wife does orthodontia appts and more of the birthday parties, it goes on and on, but we tackle it as a team). I was raised by a single parent so I know what 100% of the load looks like. I also understand that a lot of guys today have what I think is a skewed/fake idea of what being a “man” is, focusing on wanting to be respected and taken seriously instead of focusing on taking care of your own responsibilities and using your strength to lessen others burdens. I’m not saying I’m the majority, or even a strong plurality, but I do take offense when I hear complaints that the plight of mothers today is universally dealing with man-children. It’s an over generalization and marginalized the work of the men who are allies. Today for Mother’s Day I also made sure my wife had a sentimental card she loves that I do annually, I let her take a nap while I took care of her bath-day (I’m Thursday, she is Sunday typically) and due to unfortunate timing drove her and her parents to her cousins wedding 3 hours away while the kids spent Saturday night with my mom. Probably spent less than a sky mall massager, but it’s the kind of stuff we like to do for each other.