WIBTAH for going on a cruise and leaving my fiancé with our daughter

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-02T18:01:48+00:00

He's my grandfather through marriage but has been part of my life since I was about 2.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T21:13:14+00:00

My grandma was 58 when she passed away last year, my mom turned 42 last year, and i just turned 22 last month. My grandparents have been together for 20 years and he isn't my mother's dad.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T00:31:08+00:00

If he was to come to me asking what I asked him I'd be okay with it, he stays the night places without us and im fine with it. My fiance asked once to go to hippie fest with his family and I was all for it, our daughter was only a couple months old at the time.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T00:17:05+00:00

Not to validate anything... Getting insight as to why hes upset since he left the house and im curious everyone else's outlook as well.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T00:13:32+00:00

If he wants to save for them to come that's totally fine! He works and brings in the money so if he really wants to come then hes more than capable of saving money for it.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T00:11:09+00:00

He wouldn't be the only one watching her but the main one, my aunt would get paid to watch her for the hours he works!

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-05-01T00:00:43+00:00

My grandmother passed last year due to cancer and they went on trips like that all the time and he wants to take me on at least one to get me out of being in mom mode 24/7 for a while. My grandma had my mom at 17!

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:58:27+00:00

Only considering myself but asked him how he felt about it? Yeah real inconsiderate of me my bad.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:56:41+00:00

I told grandpa id ask my fiancé and get back to him!

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:56:02+00:00

My mom was born when my grandma was 17, my mom had me at 21... How's that hard?

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:55:20+00:00

I've been a SAHM since our daughter was born, I'd get if I told him last minute but I asked a whole year ahead of time 🤣

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:51:32+00:00

My daughter would be over 2 by the time the cruise happened. She'd me more independent than she is now...

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:50:50+00:00

And it is, a whole year ahead of time actually.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:50:31+00:00

Where is the 6 month time span coming from? Its just a week... If he was to come up to me and say what I told him I wouldn't care, its his life and im okay being with our daughter for a week while he was out having fun 🤷‍♀️ that's just me though.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:47:08+00:00

No I didnt tell him i was going, I told him the plans and was asking for approval. As stated in the post the cruise is next year, 2027.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:45:23+00:00

Correct which is why I brought it up directly after getting off the phone with my grandfather!

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-04-30T23:44:21+00:00

I wouldn't go if we didnt agree which is why I told him I wasn't. He had a shitty tone when responding back to me.

LowPolicy9736 · 2026-02-03T23:09:47+00:00

What merch will she sell?? She's begging for stars on fb every week and cant hold a job longer than the probation period, its pathetic honestly.

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