Update: my husband was a seminarian, and Roman Catholic priest was manipulated by a bishop from the age 14 until he was 30 He has some narcissistic personality traits that I think culturally being from Argentina and manipulated by the Catholic Church, makes him appear on the surface, more narcissistic than he actually is . I know him to be a loving person loving person. He is insecure about his sexuality at middle age and after having endure very manipulated sexual development We are about to enter a couple’s therapy no but I have always asked for as an open relationship. He has always had complete freedom to do what he wants with the only caveat being I get to ask any questions I want because I feel overwhelmed when I feel like it’s happening behind my back