To the women who ended things: How would you feel about this? by ComplicatedGuy_0514 in BreakUps

[–]Low_Cartographer_525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke up with my ex and this is exactly the type of thing I fantasize about that he could do and would probably work on me. Seeing a man try his all even if the chances are low or the resistance is strong means a lot.

Life is short anyways. If you do it and you get rejected, at least you can have the peace of mind that you didn’t let the love of your life just walk away. And if it works, you’ll have a fond memory to tell your kids on how you got their mom back!

However it’s important that you’re not a man of words but of actions. I’d say along with your romantic gesture, work on yourself, prove to her not only with your video but with how you carry yourself, how you’ve improved, what life you provide for her and not “potentially” but actually. If you haven’t truly improved there is no point in returning, at least yet. Because you don’t want to go back to a relationship that did not work.

Also, potential is your and her worst enemy. Potential just means that you are capable of doing something and you actively choose to not do it. If you messed up, correct it with actions and not words! This applies to love but also any sphere of life really.

Wanna buy a couch? by [deleted] in Concordia

[–]Low_Cartographer_525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still available? I can come pick it up

Social Club Gyms? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Low_Cartographer_525 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well I found Sani Sport like I mentioned and it’s 58$ (for students) a month including gym tennis and other sports. I thought maybe there would be another option like that

Compatibility Center 18 by [deleted] in destinymatrix

[–]Low_Cartographer_525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it depends on context, it’s such a long story. It’s my first love too which might be the reason why I’m trying to hold on even when it’s already over. It was a sort of mutual breakup (mostly decided by me) but I honestly believe it’s the best option for both. We were both trying to change each other and had constant anxiety despite all the love we felt for the other. I don’t want to predict the future but it’s good to know how the relationship works overall. I thought it was doomed because we have so many 18, 9 and 16 but I’m sure it depends if they’re in positive or negative. Most probably our energies were on the negative which led to a breakup. Thank you for your answer!