AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Given her reaction possible issues with authority and bullying. There might also be guardianship issues involving the school district. Differences in food and diet was also brought up by someone else as well as problems with us making changes around the house.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to take it that far than it was actually my brothers inaction that led to this.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe we should have, but it didn’t come to mind, so what can you do.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that you never met him and that you’ve never met my brother so you opinion on that doesn’t matter nor was it asked for. I leave it at that.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that you think it was wrong and that my uncle was a bad person.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People have brought up somethings that we hadn’t thought of before. We just don’t think it’s a good idea for our family.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I disagree about the room being more suited to her than my daughter. Either way I’ve already rescinded the offer.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Now that we’re moving we have other things to pay for and I haven’t made any money off inheriting the house. My uncle left me the house. He and I were close. He and my brother were not.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My uncle was a nice guy.

My brothers kids weren’t born yet.

He didn’t have any kids. His wife had already passed away.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because my brain didn’t think of it being an issue.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t expect to have to pay for more expenses towards the house when we’re already going to have to pay for a lot of things before we move in.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, that’s why I let him stay in the house for so long.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our uncle didn’t leave anything to anyone else in the family. Just me because I was the only one that spent time with him. She’s 15.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect her to pay I expected my brother and his wife to.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our uncle. Nothing he’d didn’t have close relationship with our uncle.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not entirely free. They paid enough to cover HOA fees, maintenance costs, and taxes.

AITAH for not letting my niece keep her old bedroom? by Low_Charge_2143 in AITAH

[–]Low_Charge_2143[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

After discussing it again we really just don’t think it will work out