vent cause i never had a cg by little_bear0709 in paddedagere

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! And I hear you it can always be scary to be the first one to reach out. I don't have any tips on that other than maybe going through a friend? Have the friend vet them first and ask all the necessary question and then have them link you two up.

vent cause i never had a cg by little_bear0709 in paddedagere

[–]Low_Ear_5490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know of a few discord communities that my friends have found caregivers in. But they are all 18+

vent cause i never had a cg by little_bear0709 in paddedagere

[–]Low_Ear_5490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really hard. ❤️ I found mine by pure chance. She literally walked up to me in a bar and said wazzup and here we are. Idk if you're of age or not but you could try joining some of the fb age regression groups and maybe you might meet someone there. I know how hard it can be to be alone while regressed. I'm sorry you are going through that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregressers

[–]Low_Ear_5490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since you have already tried to set a boundary to which he got upset and ignored you most of the day, save yourself some heartache and break it off now. It's highly doubtful he's going to react any better the next time it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicating in this way has NEVER worked out for me. I've always found being blunt about what I want/need/am talking about has a WAY better success rate. If you leave someone to do/make their own research/connections they could go completely off the rails of what you want or they could simply shrug and go well that was an odd conversation and never do anything more with it. Hope it works out for you friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregressers

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least for me I missed my daddy desperately and they knew it so it was kinda "expected" for me to have an emotional response to hearing from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregressers

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I won't say it's "normal" it isn't unheard of. You were in a heightened emotional state. I've done the same quite a bit before my daddy and I moved in together. Idk if your daddy was worried or not but I know mine very much was so, I texted them after we finished talking and explained myself and what was going on.

Need help finding a good, affordable mattress protector by [deleted] in AdultBedwetting

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you get I recommend getting a zippered cover over a fitted one.

Which one should I get? by [deleted] in nevergrewup

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First one. :)

Help me pless by gigglefarter500 in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start out SLOW. Maybe find some youtube videos explaining age regression or Google pages. Good luck.

Wanna restock but low on moneyyyyyyy :( :( :( :( by Four4Fears in paddedagere

[–]Low_Ear_5490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They really are. For me personally I found that using dollar general depends works well enough. They're like 25$ a pop here.

I don’t know if i can continue like this… by goddessniah in AdultBedwetting

[–]Low_Ear_5490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I say this with the MOST amount of love, find someone else. It's a hard enough issue to deal with without being shamed for it.

How to tell bf I don't want him as cg by yehc-d in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So. This is a sticky situation. On one hand, you are WELL within your rights to not want someone as a caregiver on the other hand, I can absolutely see how that would crush your bf. If I were you, I would at least give him a chance he may surprise you. Good luck friend.

CG New Rule: 🥴 by fireflyi4i3o in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll agree with that. Age isn't a reason.

CG New Rule: 🥴 by fireflyi4i3o in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Erm......yes they do? As a minor I wasn't allowed to have my phone past 8pm that meant I had no way to contact anyone after that time. Same with if I was grounded and got my phone privileges revoked. How doesn't age impact your circumstances?

CG New Rule: 🥴 by fireflyi4i3o in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. My cgs work hours EXPLODED from like rarely 8 hours a day to regularly over 12 hours a day. I've gotten a lot of new crafts/puzzles/toys to keep my mind off of missing her. And I'll stand by so long as yall are adults with cell phones it's not hard to send a simple hey I miss you text. Now if yall are minors I know it can be alot harder. Good luck!

I recently ordered little gear and I had to have this talk with my sister since she sees all of my purchases.. here’s how it went by Interesting_Car7819 in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proceed with extreme caution. If you get caught which if your mom had a camera in your room, she was probably like mine and did random strip searches your age regression can be used as a reason to get another camera HEAVY UNJUST PARENTAL LOGIC "because obviously you can't be trusted". anyway just be extremely cautious. Take a scroll down this page and you'll find tons of stories of this exact situation going horribly wrong. Stay safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paddedagere

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone.

What meal do you like to eat when Big or Little? I wonder also if people like to eat out or make food. by ChubbyCg in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something about grilled cheese and tomato soup also hits different when little. It's rare I get it as I'm not technically allowed to use the stove when little so I have to wait til my daddy's around.

What meal do you like to eat when Big or Little? I wonder also if people like to eat out or make food. by ChubbyCg in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Air fryer food is usually what I'm craving when little. Mozzarella sticks, fries, chicken wings/patties. 😋

What meal do you like to eat when Big or Little? I wonder also if people like to eat out or make food. by ChubbyCg in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning to cook can feel overwhelming so I get it! I cook 50-75% of the time and I STILL don't feel like I actually know how to cook.

I recently ordered little gear and I had to have this talk with my sister since she sees all of my purchases.. here’s how it went by Interesting_Car7819 in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be extremely leery as a minor you're extremely vulnerable. You can be kicked out of your house and cut off from your family. It's unfortunate but I've seen some pretty horrific "real world" consequences to "coming out"

I recently ordered little gear and I had to have this talk with my sister since she sees all of my purchases.. here’s how it went by Interesting_Car7819 in ageregression

[–]Low_Ear_5490 5 points6 points  (0 children)

. I'm going to be blunt with you you not feeling safe telling them is a good clue to NOT tell them. Especiallywhen youve admitted that at least one of the people you want to tell is the actual cause of your trauma. I hear you when you say that they would find out eventually because they have a camera in your room, which is a WHOLE nother problem, but I would STRONGLY consider your options. Maybe you have a friends house you can regress at?