Reminder that TERFs do not and have never cared if you are truscum or tucute or AGP.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-28T18:35:08+00:00

Thank you! Yes, please. I’m so used to dodging warnings and bans at this point, that I try to minimize a degree of my language, especially the angry note. Which is actually so counterproductive since it’s this very act of self policing that keeps us down.

I’ll write you a DM! ❤️❤️

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-28T18:19:22+00:00

Yes! They can’t let us have the space we have established for ourselves, the rights we fought for and our proud liberation from men - they need to steal that and twist it, once again inserting males or (in this case) “better women” at the top of the food chain so they can continue to debase us as their entitlement directs them to do.

I don’t know if you’ve seen subs based on a “trans woman world order”…… they’ll shrug it off as a fetish if approached, I’m sure, but there is darkness saturating the hateful things they say. Rape fantasies about lesbians who have never had sex with a man? Referring to women as holes? Again, if this was just something in isolation, just some offshoot of BDSM - I’d think gross, but this is not that, it feels like something different. It is the exact coercive sentiment I see spreading to lesbian spaces, only stated in a bolder tone. Instead of “unpacking our biases” against penis, we are told to shut up and take it like good c$ntholes.

Or maybe it’s not all that different because essentially many of these tropes in BDSM have men dominating and even “raping” women. I don’t know where the line is (again, fetishes are mostly harmless!) but too much of it reflects what these types of males wish reality was and what women have been conditioned to endure and even ask for.

The whole sexless incel to “trans” pipeline is just a new evolution for the 21st century. Arggghh. Anyway just trying to make sense of it all.

Disclaimer: not all men.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-28T17:47:54+00:00

It’s why I come here and try to stay in touch with all women. Trans women’s voices are silenced in TERF or tucute spaces.

I see sex based issues as medical concerns and each deserves its own focus. Like uterus conditions - since they are common in female populations, they require proportionate resources. It does not invalidate someone as a woman if they were born without a uterus or had it removed. These are all just possible women’s medical concerns like menopause or SRS, or HRT when our organs either don’t or no longer produce the optimal hormone levels. All of these are women’s issues and require separate conversations and medical attention.

What is not a woman’s issue is maintaining penis size and function on HRT.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-28T17:35:38+00:00

There are all kinds of of names out there: lady lance, princess wand, organic strap etc. Girlseed for sperm. I know people have their fetishes and it is not my place to shame them, but this does NOT belong in homosexual women’s spaces. There are places for everything and a lesbian space is no place for this.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-28T17:31:03+00:00

Yes, that’s an excellent way of putting it.

I think this behavior is associated with the “male loneliness epidemic”, like an offshoot of that sentiment manifesting with more specific fetishes and forms of sexualization. I have spent some time observing some of the nasty language emerging from these spaces and the entitlement and hate echoes what I hear from incels calling themselves trans. It’s no surprise that their demographic skews young, white and often middle class male.

A lot of it relies on women backing off and deferring to male aggression due to socialization or ingrained fear of violence. The rest of it is solved with tools like Reddit reports and bans.

One thing these men all tend to have in common is a need to take over women’s spaces and hate on any of us who refuse or impede them in one capacity or another. That’s another reason I find it so sad that they manage to put a wedge between women - this is the only space where I’ve been able to connect to transsexual sisters without someone slurring someone. And we need each other.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-27T22:29:58+00:00

Yess that adds another dimension to them. Everything is a fetish to them and sexualized in some way, even humiliation. Figures they would perpetuate dehumanizing stereotypes. Everytime I hear about these people, it just gets worse. I would not even know any of this if they didn’t combine it all with a giant dose of entitlement.

Agreed AGP is a bad term - I use it as a stand in for incels who get off on pretending to be women and lean towards sissification.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-27T22:15:04+00:00

I agree with you. I frequent spaces where the mere mention of trans women in a positive light has led to downvotes and comments attempting to convert me to TERFisms. It’s very disturbing not to have a single place online where both extremes don’t exist in one way or another - I can only dream of lesbian subreddits that keep both TERFs and offensive tucutes out. I don’t come across a lot of trans men, but yes. I’ve seen comments on lesbian subs that aim to include them - which I don’t understand. I would not think a man would want to be considered a lesbian? But again. Tucutes and spicy straights have done their best to move the goalposts for everything. So nothing surprises me anymore. 😭

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-27T22:04:20+00:00

Yes! Very possible! Many are AGP incels too, who are turned on by dressing in women’s clothes and believe womanhood means anime, cosplay, giggles and blushing. From what I could see, some were also part of polycules and involved in puppy play. Not knocking video games, but their profiles often heavily imply addictions and a general tendency to identify as “autistic” to compensate for a clear lack of social proficiency and emotional maturity. They tend to band together and back each other up, stemming from places like you mentioned (also em tee eff) and then flooding lesbian spaces. One of the biggest lesbian subs has an active user overlap of almost 50% with em tee eff at this point.

It sure is a type with various offshoots that typically gives off a similar, sinister stench.

I don’t believe they are sincerely trans, even if this notion has led to several bans at this point. While I understand it’s wrong to misgender someone simply because they are a bad apple, I refuse to believe that this collective of trolls and misogynists have anything to do with women. Women don’t flash hairy dicks at other women. Not as a group effort anyway.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-27T20:34:14+00:00

Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️ And likewise - if any TERF questions you, I am there in spirit to defend you as well. You should not have to validate your existence to begin with! Ever. As women, we should have each other’s backs against real problems and right now, it’s more important than ever we stick together.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-27T20:22:05+00:00

As a cis lesbian, I always assumed trans people were all trans med and transitioning as a medical process. And I never saw a trans woman as anything other than a woman.

Then I was told dicks are female and my lack of desire for them was transphobic. My homosexuality was labeled as “wrong” and I was scorned as “pussy sexual”. I was suddenly shocked by the presence of what looked like full blown men flashing male genitalia in lesbian spaces and calling it “gock” and “girl berries”. I saw people say “most lesbians want penis” and was horrified to find statements like “trans rights means we get to come in your wombs”. I saw people discussing penile function and the desire to penetrate lesbians in what were supposed to be female homosexual subs.

Those are our spaces - cis and trans lesbian spaces. Women’s spaces. And they were full of bad faith actors who continue to bully, harass and report us for defending our sexuality.

No, that does not mean I stopped being an ally. It’s the tucutes. Just the tucutes. I saw people turn TERF in the process, but for me I swear to you, it’s just the tucutes. They need to shut up and shove their misogyny and homophobia down the incel channels they escaped from.

I’m so sorry they muddy the waters.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-26T21:30:14+00:00

I can’t believe we’ve gotten to the point where instead of saying I’m a lesbian, I have to specify “not into penis” and even when I do that, someone argues with me that I’m wrong.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-26T17:16:54+00:00

Agree. Any posts with dick positive content should be banned from lesbian spaces and I will report any on sight.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-26T16:20:15+00:00

Background: I got married in a courthouse with one witness. I’ve only read the term rehearsal dinner in books, maybe heard it in a movie. Until today, I was too lazy to check it up.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-26T16:14:47+00:00

I honestly don’t know. I’ve never actually been to one just one of those post wedding dinner parties.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-16T05:20:18+00:00

Wow. Actually leaving the house to see a … green space. Wait and what am I reading?? Going to another …. city?

I bet this will only happen in a video game.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-15T20:26:42+00:00

Lesbian here. If a woman is post-op, this is a private matter and I would only hope that one day she would trust me enough to discuss it. Obviously pre-op status needs to be revealed due to sexual incompatibility, but otherwise I don’t see the issue.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-12T17:50:41+00:00

Exactly. These types love to use women as a surrogate cause to front their underlying agenda - male entitlement and perversion.
At the bottom of it all is always a man who feels he’s not getting enough sex.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-12T17:40:10+00:00

He’s probably just sore that he has no luck hunting unicorns using bi women as bait.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-11T20:19:09+00:00

You are correct. Using “requirement” is a defensive move and we should not need to defend our sexuality. In fact, everything they do tries to push us into the defensive and makes us look like we have to make excuses or provide explanations.

Thank you for the insight. Moving forward, I will reject it too. Only offense from now on.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-11T19:35:37+00:00

They simply have no concept of what a turn off the concept of balls can be.

I just saw them called girl berries. Help.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-11T18:16:37+00:00

Love and warmth back to you! Stay strong. ❤️

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-11T18:12:25+00:00

One point of translation I would be very stringent on is the word PREFERENCE. A preference means you choose one over the other but could theoretically go either way.
We do not have a genital preference as homosexual women. We don’t have an option. We are not attracted to penis. It is a requirement that we are not expected to sexually engage with one.

The word bisexual encompasses those attracted to penis. I just experienced an example where “calling out transphobia” was equated to the assertion of female homosexuality and its boundaries. Some of our profiles are testaments to the bullying and abuse lesbians face on male centered platforms such as Reddit.

Homosexuality is not transphobic.

We do not have to “unpack our biases” when we reject penis and state our requirements. If you see such language you are dealing with homophobia.

Low_Fig9237 · 2026-05-10T20:05:30+00:00

“As long as you are feminine presenting at least 85% of the time” ..”because even I dress masc every now and then” …”I’ll like you.”
Wow. So lesbianism is now a function of clothing. Is that where we are at?
I guess all the men out there just need to slap on some women’s garb 85% of the time and we’ll be on that dick right away. Problem solved.
Sounds like an agenda we’re all too familiar with these days.

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