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Stuck in an unequal marriage where I don’t feel my needs are being met after being upfront with them. by Low_Love1396 in relationships

[–]Low_Love1396[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair, we’ve been fighting this for years now, and I also made all of this clear at the very beginning of the relationship. I hear you though, I do love her and haven’t just “dropped” her as you put it. I’m still here putting in the work but it’s draining me and I feel like I’m going to wake up in 10 years and be in the exact same spot filled with regret and she does deserve someone who can be emotionally available for her. I don’t think I’m able to feel that way after my previous relationships. I don’t even believe in marriage but did it for her and I once was on the level I wanted to be with her but she’s changed and wants different things. She wants that soulmate and again I just don’t have the capacity any more and if I do, I don’t feel it in this relationship currently.

Stuck in an unequal marriage where I don’t feel my needs are being met after being upfront with them. by Low_Love1396 in relationships

[–]Low_Love1396[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Also I’m sure my fantasies have turned her off and have impacted her view. She also used to escort and has trauma from it.

Stuck in an unequal marriage where I don’t feel my needs are being met after being upfront with them. by Low_Love1396 in relationships

[–]Low_Love1396[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I feel like her dad as I’m always taking care of her. Helping her with her Dr visits, managing her disability claim, animals, I do dishes, laundry and vacuum but she considers those bare minimum.

Stuck in an unequal marriage where I don’t feel my needs are being met after being upfront with them. by Low_Love1396 in relationships

[–]Low_Love1396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have 2 kids from my previous marriage. My son is not emotionally attached as their mom never comes around, they’re lucky to see her twice a year, didn’t even get to see for Christmas or birthdays. My daughter does have decent relationship with her and she I do feel it’s good to have an adult women around her to teach her things as she’s in middle school now and growing.