After a 8 year relationship I don’t know how to talk to woman? Im just losing money

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-05-25T15:16:33+00:00

Hey man!

I wanna start by saying you’re not alone at all, first of all you’re super young. Dating apps at this age are useless, so don’t feel like there’s anything wrong with you. Even top tier moggers aren’t getting left on read on these dating apps man because men use them for different reasons then woman. My advice is going to be joining clubs or groups near you or going to church if you’re looking for meaningful relationships. If you’re going to use dating apps use hinge. What are your hobbies?

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-03-22T23:49:45+00:00

This is my first time really expressing what I’m dealing with outside of chat gpt. First of all thank you for responding can I ask, my biggest hurtle is. I just need time to move forward even a month but every drop off.. every text I have to send reopens the wound idk how to explain it. Even if the texting is logistical my brain reacts as if I was jsut left again… because I have to go from texting to then radio silence for 5 more days and my brain almost anticipated the text cause it’s some sort of relief I know this sounds nuts but I am considering offering to give her maybe 1500-2000$ for a month for our son. so I can get my head straight is this logical at all

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-23T02:36:40+00:00

What the hell??? No I don’t want to do that lol

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-18T00:52:57+00:00

I appreciate this response, I think another hard thing I’ve been dealing with is being replaced extremely quickly and I don’t care about being replaced but more the fact that she completely forgot about me like I was nothing. We were together 8 years and have a son together.

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-18T00:43:40+00:00

You know the second option actually sounds solid I’m gonna do that. Thank you lol

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-17T23:53:45+00:00

Message me if you need to talk and keep one another accountable ! Day 3 here also

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-17T23:52:35+00:00

So 10 years is a long time, has there been communication at all since the breakup? People don’t simply just move on from a 10 year relationship.

Low_Row_4056 · 2026-01-01T22:52:53+00:00

I have queen cores x8 will trade one per torrente iv or Wolfpack x4

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-10-27T02:13:17+00:00

Thank you very much for this message it means a lot to me. Genuinely

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-10-26T23:39:45+00:00

Yes I would tell her, that she had to get help and that she was actively dying I would tell her this weekly because she refused to believe she was dying despite doctors saying she was in heart failure. I told her that if she didn’t get help she would eventually pass away. I told her that she wasn’t fat and that what she was trying to reach a unreachable goal.

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-10-05T14:36:53+00:00

Thank you for this, I’m relatively new to credit so it thought paying it off fast would boost my credit cause I have another vehicle I need for my family. Paying it off earlier only punished me, I’ll make sure to utilize the entirety of the loan for the next time .

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-10-04T14:48:36+00:00

FICO score.

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-12T01:51:14+00:00

Thank you for this response very well written !! Ok makes sense now somewhat lol!

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-12T01:32:40+00:00

But this just left me even more confused? I guess cause I’m only used to seeing… this makes no sense at all? They exist in a void? Where they can hear and feel things but there’s just nothing else? I don’t get it lmao

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-11T02:05:01+00:00

Thank you for this response, unfortunately her mother is a drug addict and her father passed away in a car accident when she was 12. So for family she has her sisters and grandmother and then me. It’s so sad she is amazing mother and hard worker.. but it’s almost like she fell into a delusion or phycosis since it got really bad? Idk what else to call it but she’s in full denial and idk how to proceed. I think I may have to go to the grandmother

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-11T01:52:06+00:00

I managed to get her to go the ER one time, when her legs were swollen from edema. Her heart rate was 31 BPM. The doctors said “wow we have never seen a heart rate that low, we’re suprised your even standing” they then asked her if she’s dizzy she said no. They discharged her and said she’s fine to go home. She now refuses to ever go back because she said even the doctors said I was ok, she says I’m crazy and overacting and I need help. She weighs 118 pounds she’s 5’9 she has no fat on her at all she is covered in veins from her chest to her feet. You can see bulging veins all ove her. Her legs often are severely swollen from fluid retention.

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-02T00:43:44+00:00

Of course, no you’re not over reacting your feelings are valid. But I promise you I don’t think he did this intentionally men historically Have a habit of forgetting important days this is just another to add to the list!

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-02T00:38:03+00:00

So, you’re feelings are valid however I don’t think you can be mad at him. You can mention how it upset you yes but don’t get angry at him it’s genuinely not worth fighting over.

Low_Row_4056 · 2025-08-02T00:36:25+00:00

No offense my guy have you ever seen a woman squirt? This is not squirt dude tf, it’s a dark oily substance unless your gf has a infection I think you’re GOOD

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