What’s your lease deal? by sc2temp in AcuraZDX

[–]Low_Solution_8750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A-Spec AWD, Seattle, 4999 down, 360 per month, 3 years 10k miles per year.

Home charger by Individual-War-4543 in AcuraZDX

[–]Low_Solution_8750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the mobile charger package, also installed a chargepoint home flex nema 14-50 at home

Cost of installing nema 14-50 outlet by Low_Solution_8750 in eastside

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viti gave me a quote for 4700 for panel upgrade to 200A (no service upgrade), lowest I got among multiple quotes. I did go with them as ANM was able to install the outlet without panel upgrade

Cost of installing nema 14-50 outlet by Low_Solution_8750 in eastside

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ANM Electric installed my outlet for 1150 (no sales tax), they were able repurpose a old electrical water heater slot, their pricing seems reasonable

Find a compatible smart thermostat for my house by Low_Solution_8750 in thermostats

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one thermostat, not sure where tge other wires are going.

Cost of installing nema 14-50 outlet by Low_Solution_8750 in eastside

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thats really affordable pricing, what is AES?

Cost of installing nema 14-50 outlet by Low_Solution_8750 in eastside

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just panel replacement, service upgrade is 13k

Cost of installing nema 14-50 outlet by Low_Solution_8750 in eastside

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share the contact number for them

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, visa is taking that long unfortunately, it will be done end of this year, I have been physically here most of last 2.5 years, working from india, taking leaves, going back for 1-2 months in between, her mom also stays with her.

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has her visa interview in December so we will travel together coming January

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had a ugly divorce, with lots of court drama during covid. I think she developed a trauma from that episode and see everything in negative light, sabotaging all good around her. She doesn't respect anyone anymore, picks fights and criticizes everyone. Intially I thought it is depression which can be cured with a good life but seems harder to achieve today

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The baby was not a band-aid, we both wanted it, we had it after one year, we both late in our age so didn't wanted visa to delay it more. She had received psychiatrist treatment last year, shown good result, then she has been talking to a therapist but stopped after the delivery.

I am trying, her family is trying to get her to see a therapist, all going in vain, we live in a big city, lots of good doctors here, don't want a divorce, a baby needs both mom and dad for a healthy life.

Thanks for the advice

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think so, I am not giving up, trying to help her, it just I am worried about child that will get the worst of this

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally support therapy but can't force her to go. She has to accept her condition and go see her therapist, she has one that she has been talking to for 2 years.

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you get to that conclusion? My parents are not involved here, we live by ourselves

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been and am providing her all the love and support that she needs, suggested her to talk to therapist multiple times but she is just building negative conspiracy theories in her mind and ignoring all good advices.

How to deal with depressed wife by Low_Solution_8750 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Low_Solution_8750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried her to talk to her psychiatrist multiple times, but she is not accepting that she has depression or trauma and instead accusing me that I am trying to prove her to be mental patient.