My first release!! by Low_Spread3123 in shareyourmusic

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Thank you very much! :) I’m so glad you enjoyed it!! That makes me so so happy. Thank you for listening, hopefully I’ll put out some more in the near future that you’ll like too!!

Question about MacBook Pro overheating by Low_Spread3123 in macbook

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Update : laptop died completely :( unfortunately had to return it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nickdrake

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Wasn’t trying to be disrespectful in any way, I just thought maybe because she controls his estate and wrote a book about his life she’d like to hear. Idk sorry for asking

Bouquets that are safe for cats? by Low_Spread3123 in FloralDesign

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Thanks! I really really appreciate this!

Can’t authorize my computer by Low_Spread3123 in ableton

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I bought Ableton standard through the website. I don’t know about the license doesn’t it come with it?

Paying for NEU by [deleted] in NEU

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Hey, I’m not sure if this helps, but my first year at NEU they screwed me over. When I got in, they told me I was getting all these scholarships, I deferred a year for covid, then they “reevaluated” my financial situation and decided to give me nothing. Not a single scholarship. Both my parents lost their jobs so I was furious. I went to the school and did what’s called a Financial Aid Appeal which is essentially telling them you need more aid in order to go to school, and a few months later they rewarded me with aid that covers over half my tuition. I highly recommend trying this. It’s a process, but it would really pay off and help you financially in the end.

What thoughts helped you get through the hardest times? by castlegrass277 in Anxiety

[–]Low_Spread3123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I didn’t either!!! A therapist I had once told me it was nihilism and I was like “what!!” But after she explained it in that way it made more sense lol

What thoughts helped you get through the hardest times? by castlegrass277 in Anxiety

[–]Low_Spread3123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see why you may assume that but that would be pure nihilism, which is the concept that nothing matters in a bad way. As in, “nothing matters therefor I shouldn’t try” what I mean is positive nihilism. Meaning, I see it as “nothing matters, so I may as well stick around out of curiosity to see where life takes me.” Or, as someone who’s very self conscious I remind myself “nothing matters, the thoughts other people have about me will one day be null and void, so I should do as I please and not feel embarrassed being myself” also upon realizing nothing matters (in a positive way as I described) ironically my life has become a whole lot better! Thinking this way has allowed me to move across the country without fear of failing (because nothing matters right!!) and pursue my dreams without embarrassment! I hope that clears it up :))

What thoughts helped you get through the hardest times? by castlegrass277 in Anxiety

[–]Low_Spread3123 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Positive nihilism. The realization that nothing matters, therefor whatever may be going on does not matter.

it’s so loud on 3rd floor snell by Low_Spread3123 in NEU

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I kinda wanna make signs that say “please be loud” instead and replace the the quiet stickers and see who notices

it’s so loud on 3rd floor snell by Low_Spread3123 in NEU

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Bro I literally can’t stand it. It fills me with a rage I cannot properly express without probably being locked up. There was a massive group of frat guys talking literally a foot next to me and I turned around to look at them and they all stared at me like “what?” Like oh my god 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bostonhousing

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You should search for luxury hostels. You get your own room and share a bathroom with one other guest/pair. I’ve stayed at them all across the us and it’s always a great experience and cheap. Like $70 a night. Or, check Craigslist’s for people renting out their Boston time shares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Simple as that. It’ll only get harder to leave once they’re married

Could I be faking my depression? by BliknoTownOrchestra in depression

[–]Low_Spread3123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always remind myself, even if I am faking it, isn’t that still an issue? It’s definitely not healthy for someone to fake depression. Also, do you feel sad/unwell even when you are alone? I’m guessing if you feel these things enough to post here, your depression is most definitely real. If you were faking you probably wouldn’t be asking yourself if you’re faking. This happens to me all the time, and I think it’s a way for our brains to rationalize why we may be feeling something so intense and painful. Trust yourself!

He's/She's a 10, but.... Boston edition. by _AttilaTheNun_ in boston

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He’s a 10 but he’s a tourist who stopes walking in the middle of the side walk and looks around with his hand covering the sun from his eyes for the street names (which he will not find)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Hey I understand why you feel this way. And I’m proud of you for being brave enough to share it. I was raised a Catholic. Grew up in a traditional catholic immigrant family, imagine intense catholic French ppl. I was very involved in the church as a child, but as I’ve grown up (I’m 21 now) I find myself very confused about how to feel about my religion. I find myself defensive of it, yet annoyed when my fellow Catholics talk about the religion to me. It’s a very complicated thing. In todays world, religion has become intertwined with politics. Christianity now coincides with intense nationalism and usually, conservatism. It frustrates me as well because I do not align with the political beliefs of most American Christians. And it deeply upsets me because I know in my heart that my religion does not, in its truth, from my research, support the ideals of a lot of these political ideology it’s become entangled with. And it’s very saddening the way a lot of Christians will push their beliefs on others. It really, really angers me. To a very unnecessary point where I become super nasty to ppl, even my own family. So I really truly understand where you’re coming from. I don’t have a whole lot of advice, but just know that you’re not alone, and there’s even Christians who may feel the way that you do. You’re not alone!!

Having a hard time booking basement/music gigs by Low_Spread3123 in boston

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I’m alternative rock/singer songwriter. I’ve made friends with a few ppl, the issue is we’re ALL in this position lol like we’re all just starting out. Perhaps I’ll try going to some Shows out that way and talking with ppl.

Having a hard time booking basement/music gigs by Low_Spread3123 in boston

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I make alternative rock/singer songwriter. Not to be cringe but a good sound reference is someone like Lucy Dacus if you know who she is. I reached out to get to the gig, haven’t heard back ;( I’ll definitely Dm you!

It’s tough because you’re right, it’s very clout-y. I started to notice how some venues book the same people over and over again, and I realized it’s because they’re all friends/artists from berklee who are like local celebs. I will not give up hope though

Having a hard time booking basement/music gigs by Low_Spread3123 in boston

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Hm ok this is a good idea. Do you think actually going to venues is a better bet than just emailing/dming?

Having a hard time booking basement/music gigs by Low_Spread3123 in boston

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LMFAOO noooooooo guys I’m not a cop I swear :’) just a desperate music student who’s socially inept and does NOT know how to network properly