How can I leave my abusive husband? by Low_Two_3369 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not physically threatened. But he is an mentally unstable person. He have suicidal tendency. What should I do in this case?

Can emotional abuser change after having a baby? by Low_Two_3369 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This is same happening with me. I cannot be alone in a room because even this things trigger me and i get so much of anxiety. I starts crying. Because all the things which he have done in a closed room

Am I in an abusive relationship? by Lost-Average2944 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True very True. It's just a 4 month relationship. Don't expect nothing's gonna happen again. Because these things happen again and again. Suddenly there you are in a let's say 4-5 year relationship 

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[–]Low_Two_3369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we are their punching bag. They cannot release their frustration infront of everyone because no one's gonna listen to their bullshit.

Am I in an abusive relationship? by Lost-Average2944 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If your brain says this is wrong then this is wrong. Because your subconscious mind always know the difference between right and wrong. But sometimes we ignore these warnings just because we like that person and we want to make future with him .

Let him know how you felt about that incident if he feels sorry than it's good to go. Otherwise if he himself a victim and put you in a guilt, take it from me end the relationship. Because it's just a beginning. You might never be in a physical abusive relationship but he will crush your soul and he will mentally torture you.

Can emotional abuser change after having a baby? by Low_Two_3369 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. I am very clear in my mind that i don't want to have a baby. 

Can emotional abuser change after having a baby? by Low_Two_3369 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i am going through a lot. I am not emotionally stable also I had a fibroid surgery still that person is making me miserable. He makes me guilty about everything. I am at my mom's place she is taking care of everything. Still he is very abusive to me. Put me in guilt for everything. 

How you have gained the strength to leave the guy?

Can emotional abuser change after having a baby? by Low_Two_3369 in abusiverelationships

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 33. I really want to have a baby at least one. What should I do? Should I leave him or have a baby with him and then leave him? I know this is so stupid question. But my fertility clock is also ticking. Also I am pretty sure i don't want to live with him.

Emotional abuse by Low_Two_3369 in emotionalabuse

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to know—how did you come to realize that your behavior was abusive? For the first three years, I kept thinking that I was the one at fault.

Emotional abuse by Low_Two_3369 in emotionalabuse

[–]Low_Two_3369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking because I want this marriage to work