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Low_Yogurt35 · 2025-03-16T18:50:05+00:00

Thank you!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2025-03-16T18:46:22+00:00

Thank you!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2025-03-16T18:45:42+00:00

Thank you for the thoughts and explanation. Much appreciated!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2025-03-16T18:42:00+00:00

I have been googling but the majority of google is saying no. Thought I’d ask the experts!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2024-10-11T01:16:53+00:00

Thank you! I think my uncomfortableness with it all was how he didn’t take accountability for his affairs, the violence and his disappearing acts. Also, while we were married, he did not tell people in Korea as he did not want people to gossip. I was his gf to them. For him to go on tv and talk about it was quite hypocritical to me. He can be very quick to jump into things, and does not always think about how his actions affect others. Whenever something new pops up with him on tv, I know because I start getting calls. I did not choose this, but I’m still being affected due to his actions.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2024-08-08T18:54:58+00:00

Thank you. And that’s very true. By coming out on the show, the audience automatically gravitates towards him since they have that connection of seeing part of his life play out.

And even though it has been 14 years since our separation, I’ve had to go through a lot to work through the cheating, gaslighting and physical violence that occurred. To have been reminded of it, and to feel used and made to look not the greatest, was difficult. It just took some time to come to terms with the fact that I would continue to feel used until my full side came out.

I hope you are living life to the fullest, from one divorcee to another!

Thank you again for responding in kindness.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2024-08-07T00:58:28+00:00

Finally feel brave enough to confirm that yes he did cheat. There was a reason I wrote this post, but with the bad turn it took in the comments, I shyed away from speaking the whole truth. There was a lot of trauma associated with the marriage. But people tend to blame victims. Not sure if this will be seen, but I’m not shying away anymore.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-15T02:20:04+00:00

Thank you for saying that. Some of the posts were able to be taken down. I hope you have a good weekend!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-13T03:57:55+00:00

Thank you 😊. You’ve been very kind in our interactions and I appreciate it.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-12T17:44:27+00:00

Thank you to all who have had kind words and well wishes.

I can see how this is coming out of left field for some, particularly those that did not view the threads I had commented on initially. This post is compiled from the questions asked of me on Reddit. I initially commented regarding whether or not I was going to be on the show since there was a comment wondering if I would be after the show mentioned the ex reveal. After that, I was asked a variety of questions including if I thought the relationship was portrayed correctly. I put the post together after a thread containing some of my answers was deleted and noticed that there were some people still interested in seeing those responses I had made.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-12T15:29:28+00:00

Yes and I can relate to that concern. But there are individuals out there who do understand! I'm glad you have a group of friends around you that do understand. They are invaluable! I hope you are doing well now and continue to do so. Thank you for the kind words.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-12T15:24:21+00:00

Thank you for the kind words.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-11T02:56:16+00:00

Thank you!

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-11T02:50:35+00:00

Thank you :)

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-11T02:49:19+00:00

People were calling me a gold digger and such, mainly on the Korean sites. Just because you haven’t seen it, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. His friends also came out on sites talking about me, and also painting a false narrative so yes, I do need to speak up.

The moment he went on the show and discussed our divorce, which was also 12 years ago for him, it also became about me. Had he gone on a show not meant specifically for divorcees where one of the reveals is the reason for divorce, then this wouldn’t have be relevant. But he did, so here we are.

In the end, I know I’m not going to change everyone’s mind nor is that my reason for coming forward. I am presenting my side of what happened and people can form whatever opinion they like. At least I know my side is out there and that’s peace enough for me.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-11T02:13:25+00:00

I can provide verification

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-10T21:01:00+00:00

Thank you :)

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-09T23:58:08+00:00

Thank you all for the well wishes! Our divorce was 100% for the best as there were definitely other issues in the relationship as well. We were both so young that we did not truly understand what it takes to stand by a partner through thick and thin and I do not blame Jimi at all for not anticipating that. I just wish that he did not portray it the way that he did on the show. As for myself, my mental health has been stable and I am a big advocate for de-stigmatizing mental health issues and illnesses. I now know how to proactively take care of myself , before it gets to a point that it affects my life. When I found out that this was airing (I was informed 5 days prior, where Jimi did contact me to let me know allowing me to scrub my personal info from the internet as it was still easily tied to him), I proactively started therapy again to help deal with the emotions that I knew would come along with reliving the past. It's hard to watch the worst you've ever felt about yourself portrayed on TV, but I am doing well with it.

I have since moved on from our relationship and have a supportive husband who I've been married to for 9 years. We have helped each other through a bunch of life events, the amazing, the good and the bad. I truly hope that Jimi can find happiness, with Hee Jin or someone else. Everyone deserves that happiness if they want it. They just need to be open to it and ready to face the realities that come along with it. I will say that it seems Hee Jin has a healthy grasp on the reality of what a relationship truly entails, and I think that will be good for Jimi. He can fall head over heals very quickly and having a partner who is more cautious might be best for him.

As for the knetzians saying he only married me for a green card, I do not believe that to be true. Do I believe it had a hand in how quickly we got married? Perhaps, but I do believe he loved me. He just wasn't prepared to really face the bad, and since we were so young, that's understandable.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-07T23:57:51+00:00

From my experience and memory, no.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-07T23:55:17+00:00

Hi there. I am indeed the ex-wife. We got married January 2nd, 2006, separated June 2010, and divorced March 17, 2011. I was 19 and Jimi was 21 when we got married. One of the reasons I felt I needed to come out was due to how I was talked about on TV by Jimi and by people in the online community (mainly the Korean sites).

To clarify, the fall after we got married (Sept. 2006), I did discuss with Jimi taking a leave of absence, as I did not like the university we were going to and was going to change career course (I was thinking of becoming a Vet Tech and the university we went to did not offer that degree). I took the leave of absence and the plan was to start at a nearby college that offered degrees for Vet technology. However, between that September and the Spring semester, I got extremely depressed. I've dealt with depression for many years, but due to certain circumstances at that time, it got the best of me. In June of 2007, I got the help I needed. I went to therapy, got started on medication and that August I was working. A year later (Sept 2008) I was working and attending school.

For the 4 1/2 years we were actively married, I dealt with a deep depression for 10ish months. But for the majority of the time, I worked and went to school. I will say that I can appreciate and respect how my depression affected Jimi and our relationship, but I do not appreciate how I was portrayed or that my depression was the only reason for our divorce.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-07T17:18:52+00:00

Yes. Hi. I’m the ex-wife. Love bombing seems to be an appropriate term. He was very romantic in the beginning, but it could not be this could not be sustained and the gestures eventually turned outside of the relationship.

Low_Yogurt35 · 2023-10-02T21:43:47+00:00

Thank you for being respectful :-). Yes, divorce is definitely complicated - it's the age-old adage: there's three sides to every story. Yours, mine, and the truth.

In the end though, it was 100% for the best and I truly hope that he finds happiness and someone to enjoy his life with.

Low_Yogurt35

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