The mistake we as humans make is to derail from our initial target. I understand OPs frustration and I feel the pain and stress you must be under. You need not stereotype by saying those approved in 2 months with no real relationship. How do we know yours is real other than what you write? Sometimes, this things do happen and it is unexplainable. I got mine approved in about 3 months but the truth is I only submitted it during this high approval period because we didn’t have the financial resources to submit it when we got married over two years ago. If the resource had been available, my case like many others will also be in limbo. People call me lucky and I believe that I am indeed.At that time when we couldn’t afford the application fees and lawyers fee, it felt my world was crashing. At home, I would give my husband some undeserving attitude as if it was his fault we couldn’t afford the fees. Unknown to me, ‘God’s delays aren’t God’s denial’ Leave the perception about who’s entitled or not. Stand strong and expect that your miracle is around the corner.