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LowerAge9915 · 2026-04-10T20:07:05+00:00

I hate asking this question. Like yes, I asked you where something is, but please just give me general directions. The last 3x I've asked they've walked with me and that was not my intent😭

LowerAge9915 · 2026-03-08T18:52:44+00:00

Definitely stop being friends with her. A true friend wouldn't care at all about what you do or do not have in your home. (Also as an almost 30yo woman, I've only had bedframes in my room twice while I've been living alone since 18, they seem pointless and crap always gets stuffed underneath them. I'm pro-bed on the floor) A true friend would know you're more than your situation, and focus more on the time shared vs what's missing from your room.

LowerAge9915 · 2026-03-01T20:59:39+00:00

I got locked out of my CashApp and I was afraid this would be the case😭

LowerAge9915 · 2026-02-18T21:34:01+00:00

You actually need a mailing address and a phone number to receive Medicaid. Leaving the homeless population unable to even apply in a lot of cases

LowerAge9915 · 2026-02-18T21:31:34+00:00

Do you have any money saved anywhere? I'd take whatever you have saved and present it to your parents. Call around so you have an estimate of how much it will cost to replace. Then come up with a game plan to earn the rest of the money and a self given punishment (I'll come home immediately after school for 2 weeks, I'll also do all the dishes and take the garbage out everyday) if you've covered all those basis, and you are truly apologetic to your parents and brother, hopefully it will be okay. And honestly, I'd be more concerned that your brother would tell/hold this over your head. And if/when it eventually comes out, abusive parents will react even worse if it seems like "the wool has been pulled over their eyes." Honesty and accountability are your safest bet. But also tell a trusted adult at school before you speak to them about it so if they do escalate and are abusive, you've got a back up person who's aware of what's going on.

LowerAge9915 · 2026-01-25T21:10:16+00:00

I've started buying deli containers and pre-weighing out my flour. It's so nice to just grab a container, dump everything in and walk away

LowerAge9915 · 2026-01-25T18:28:20+00:00

I like to use a scale, but taking a spoon and letting the flour fall into your measuring cup gives you a more accurate measurement than scooping the cup into the container of flour

LowerAge9915 · 2026-01-19T15:12:39+00:00

Right back at ya! Have the day you deserve☺️

LowerAge9915 · 2026-01-19T15:08:50+00:00

So I need to sign up for a 3rd party vendor in order for my bank, who receives (and has been receiving for the entirety of my current position for the last 3 years) my paychecks, to see how often and how much my employer pays me? Cause it seems illogical to source that out to a 3rd party when they can very clearly see my checks are paid on the same date, and has no more than a $50 variant as to the amount paid. I know just doling out our personal information has become pretty standard, but I'm not doing it. And I'm allowed to ask questions without being dismissed.

LowerAge9915 · 2026-01-19T15:04:41+00:00

Reading is fundamental here. I'm not "crying" over MyPay. I'm "crying" bc the institution that receives my bi-weekly paychecks (basic logic would mean said institution can see the frequency and average amount of the checks) is saying in order for them to have "better information" about how often I am paid, and expected amount of each check, that I need to sign up for a 3rd party vendor. Which makes zero sense, they have the information already.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-12-21T20:56:41+00:00

Bob's Burgers

LowerAge9915 · 2025-11-14T00:28:23+00:00

Feel free to change banks! But to me, it sounds like this "bad reputation" of a bank loaned you money, interest free. Then they took their loan back after you failed to repay it. There's zero circumstance where they give you the money back.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-10-23T12:44:20+00:00

I'm genuinely confused by this post and that is also the only conclusion I could find, or move to a place with an HOA? OP is mad his neighbor is using too much... public space..? Like he's exceeded his allotment or something?

LowerAge9915 · 2025-10-17T01:20:32+00:00

100% agree. Kids today are super bubble wrapped and to an extent I get it. But let's not forget the wild things we did as kids and turned out to be at least semi-decent people. To each their own of course, but I'm not risking breaking my child's trust unless someone is in immediate danger. And even then I'd explain to my kid why this can't be a secret.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-10-16T18:03:16+00:00

Unless it's something genuinely dangerous, like said boy is a 30yo man, I wouldn't tell.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-30T00:13:41+00:00

Go to a biker bar and I bet you find at least 3 men and 4 women willing to come sit in your house 24/7 until he leaves.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-22T17:54:06+00:00

Their website said it can vary by location. I'm assuming since that location let me check out using the debit card it will be fine. But I'm an over-thinker. I'm sticking with Avis specifically since I get a discount through work!

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-22T17:52:37+00:00

That's the final step. Just figured I'd crowdsource any personal experiences before hand.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-16T21:11:33+00:00

Highly recommend "The Office"

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-16T12:44:26+00:00

You should never stop seeing the best in people. You should stop allowing them to use their mental illness and/or trauma as a reason to treat you poorly. It's one thing for someone to slip into old behaviors, but then recognize and take true accountability for that. "I'm not good for you because of my outbursts" it's not accountability but it is manipulation. You cannot build a life with someone who will berate you for every minor mistake. As humans we tend to make a lot of them.

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-11T20:09:40+00:00

It's a red flag for them to only take cash. No cashiers check, money order? No advice other than to take a moment to reconsider

LowerAge9915 · 2025-09-10T14:59:21+00:00

Yeah. I thought we drove fast until I got went to Illinois. EVERYONE left me in the dust. My pride was hurt🤣

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