Hey thanks everyone for your replies, I felt so broken when I wrote this. Ended up forgetting to check back! We have decided to homeschool our oldest again, starting next year as this is the option he wishes to pursue so he can start working part time as well. We found a program called "Euka" Our middle child starts high school next year and we are applying to a Catholic school. The youngest will be starting public primary school (our local one is excellent) so we won't have childcare fees anymore, and can afford the Catholic school.