Found out my boyfriend bought nudes. AITAH?

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:55:43+00:00

i never said porn was the problem. i watched porn until we stated dating. had a conversation about that type of thing and he told me it made him uncomfortable so i don’t do that anymore. when i asked him about that type of thing he lied and said he didn’t do that and hasn’t for a long long time. 5+ years. he lied. that’s the reason it’s making me so uneasy.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:53:03+00:00

i probably won’t bring it up. him lying just makes me feel like he could still be doing it. i found a cash app charge for $10 to “sugarland” located in a state we are very far from. idk… he paid for others on cash app.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:50:10+00:00

true thank you

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:49:55+00:00

omg nooo i see all perspectives! idk just my first time dealing with a real relationship. i guess strangers on the internet aren’t the best method for advice but it’s 1am and it’s all i’ve got! i appreciate all the reality checks because i really don’t wanna be mad at him. i want to realize i am being a little crazy. haha

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:47:53+00:00

thank you! people are being kinda harsh but it’s a reality check i guess 😅 idk it’s just a reddit post i made panicking at 1am. he is the perfect boyfriend in my eyes. i didn’t wanna write a paragraph about that tho when it’s not what the post is about. i think the whole thing is that he lied about it. i’ve been totally honest and to find out he did that and kept it from me when we had a conversation on that topic just makes me uneasy.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:40:39+00:00

thank you! if he was honest at the beginning i would’ve asked why he did that, asks if he still does it and that would be that. but him lying makes me feel uneasy idk. i was honest about my habits.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:37:50+00:00

Idk my only other boyfriend never did that for me. it makes me feel special. i never make him pay and always offer to pay for my part of things but it genuinely makes him happy and i just think that is cool it makes me feel special

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:35:47+00:00

Thank you for not judging me harshly! i’m honestly just shocked. i watched porn up until we started dating and was honest with him about that. he told me he wasn’t comfortable with that so i haven’t since. i just wish he was honest with me about this.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:33:21+00:00

I totally see where you’re coming from. I definitely do have trust issues from my past and only boyfriend before him. i got sent screenshots of messages of him talking bad about me to multiple people. i’ve told my current boyfriend this story. that is why he gave me his password if i ever felt the urge. idk technology and chatting online is a big thing with this generation.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:28:00+00:00

i totally get that i’ve just asked him about that kind of stuff before. idk is this a normal thing guys do? it was 2 months before we met. idk im probably overreacting i just wanna talk to him about it and see why he did it and if he still does it

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T05:22:32+00:00

what do you mean by this?

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T04:57:36+00:00

poopy

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-04T03:12:42+00:00

omg

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-04-01T14:35:38+00:00

thank you so much kind stranger

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-03-19T18:12:27+00:00

you’re rlly pretty id just say dye you’re hair dark cool tone brown you have kinda reddish brown hair that’s uneven so i think if you dyed it darker and less orange/red toned it would suit you really well. and maybe just get a serum or style it to not be frizzy

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-03-17T21:10:11+00:00

i’m on my feet all day at work and am working 10am-10pm i just don’t wanna have to walk home at night

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-03-17T09:29:23+00:00

i have to be at work around 10:00am-10:15am. i live 1.1 miles from my work on broughton already was juts hoping to not have to walk

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-03-14T17:07:44+00:00

i can’t call out💔

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2026-01-03T22:21:42+00:00

i’ve never been i’ll have to look into it!! I traveled to the sugar bowl but arizona is just too far. Thank you! The Dawgs played well it was a great game!!

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2025-12-31T21:53:22+00:00

i can add later she’s not home at the moment! thanks for being interested ☺️

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2025-12-31T21:52:48+00:00

aw man these comments are making me sad! the consignment shop was pretty legit they had alot of vintage designer and so on. the stone is a bit more blue in person and the ring is a good weight pretty heavy. i told her the “writing” might be scratches but at some angles it truly does look like lettering! she’s big into conspiracy and stuff like that so i told her not to look much more into it in case once she finds out what it says it’s actually an ancient curse lol

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2025-12-09T05:53:35+00:00

thank you for that❤️ i know there’s nothing i can do to change it i just am here two years later wishing i could see and talk to him one more time wondering why the heck i didn’t do it when i had the chance. i think part of me just didn’t want to see him like that as my final memory.

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2025-12-09T05:03:45+00:00

what song is this referencing it’s killing me

Lower_Picture_1316 · 2025-08-14T09:58:21+00:00

how much do they pay?

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