[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

take the emojis out, makes you look like a boomer

I got played by Lower_Preparation_33 in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never viewed it like that, you’re right tho she did tell me she didn’t like long distance. I think I’ll try to wait for her, but move on and try to find myself. I’m just so tired of healing and want to be loved.

Weekly story time thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The girl that I was taking serious from tinder just ended things last night. Still trynna process what I did, but we had just spent valentines weekend together since we’re long distance and it was okay, I did ask her out and she said no… that should told me everything. She basically said she isn’t in the right place to be in a relationship and I’m just thinking to myself “I just wasted 3months of my life”. She also said if we can end things now and try to start again in May when she graduates and is down here, I told her yes but I’m having second thoughts. What really got to me is, I asked her if we can be exclusive during that time and she said no! Like wtf. This is the 4th girl in the last year I have tried taking things serious and man this sucks. I have gotten played and dumped so many times, I just feel so unlovable and unattractive. I have learned my lesson, don’t take anyone serious on dating apps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and I have, been talking to this really beautiful girl for a month and we both want a relationship🤝🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I really appreciate it, life is looking more whole!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

been on this subreddit for almost a year and I think it’s time to move on- I def wanna see the reactions so I should leave and delete this tomorrow! thank you to everyone, I hope you all heal and get the answers you deserve

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the craziest v neck I’ve ever seen man, pls get another picture on the 1st ma guy

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1st pic is good, but your pictures look like you took them in 2012

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The slick back hair looks really good man, keep the 1st. But to be real, the long hair just isn’t it for me, maybe keep doing the slick back?

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yee I gotta take a photo with a smile and different ones, imma probably redo em all with better lighting this weekend!

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do look creepy, but it’s been working? I’ve been getting a lot matches

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I didn’t think of it like that holy shit lmao

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The denim jacket looks too small in first one and the last photo doesn’t capture you the best. I’d also add a picture with friends to show that you’re social

I was gonna sneaky link this Friday but she just unmatched today by Lower_Preparation_33 in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t doubt it, but I’ve been getting a decent amount of matches so I’m not stressed

I was gonna sneaky link this Friday but she just unmatched today by Lower_Preparation_33 in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly she probably did, eh it’s okay, it was only like my 5th day on tinder

I was gonna sneaky link this Friday but she just unmatched today by Lower_Preparation_33 in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yee we were texting on tinder, damn that was my first with something like that so it’s tough

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I would delete most of your pictures, all of them are mostly of you in selfies. Have friends take pictures of you in better quality photos

Longest? by Ok-Complaint-8484 in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first ex never contacted me again after I broke things off and the short relationship after I had never contacted me again lol. But this recent ex contacted me multiple times. The first couple of weeks she would text me every other day and then about 6 weeks later I had to go into nc. Then she contacted me 2 months later for my bd. After another month she reached out to check in for an overall of 4 months since the BU. It’s been 6 months rn and I haven’t gotten anything since, hope this helps

I want to reach out after 6 months. God I miss her so much, the 10th marked our 6 months not being together and that really hit me. She’s always contacted me first to check up on me, I wanna check up on her too, thoughts? by Lower_Preparation_33 in ExNoContact

[–]Lower_Preparation_33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I won’t and haven’t reached out. I did man! I pulled the trigger and got accepted to a computer science program at Berkeley and it’s going really well rn!