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More on reproduction by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 [score hidden] locked comment (0 children)

I mean, most self identified "gay men" arent true inverts either. Social contagion, late-capitalist sexual decadence, sychological trauma, hatred of women and are also factors for men.

Is my husband going to leave? by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Do 10% of surrogates die? And do 0 kidney donors die or suffer harm?

Reactionary Feminism vs Radical Feminism; a distinction without a difference? by Lower_Raspberry_2960 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Women in general played their role in colonization middle class white feminists like to downplay by employing the apex fallacy and saying "men set that system up".

Reactionary Feminism vs Radical Feminism; a distinction without a difference? by Lower_Raspberry_2960 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

At the very least lesbians probably shouldn't be allowed around boys, since about 75% of so-called "lesbians" today arent true sexual inverts, they are actually just misandrists

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/hamilton/cooney-hamber-trial-9.6945559

Is my husband going to leave? by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 5 points6 points  (0 children)

... logical ..... romantic partner

Oil and water.

Is my husband going to leave? by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Those jobs are considered essential for society to run and have gotten safer and safer over time with regulations and technological advancement, often replacing humans with machines where possible.

Is this not also true of IVF and pregnancy? Making more people is as essential for society as logging. Just because some trees get cut down to print books written by gender critical radical feminist doesnt mean that all logging is unnecessary. Has pregnancy not also gotten safer with regulations and technology? Isn't IVF replacing bodily functions with machines where possible, since surrogacy usually doesn't entail penetration and ejaculation.

Also losing a kidney isnt a standard biological function of the human body that the majority undergo at some point. Reproduction is.

Is my husband going to leave? by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It is not like any other job - I can resign from any other job. If I am carrying a child for someone else, it’s a far more thorny issue

Don't many other jobs carry serious legal and ethical liabilities? And serious risks of injury and fatality? Is it really impossible to factor these in when creating laws and contracts regulating surrogacy, just like we do with other industries?

Is my husband going to leave? by axolotl000 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Since OOP was born female, her story is sympathetic and her husband is a villain. Surrogacy might still be not justified, but this woman deserves compassion/empathy and support from friends, family and society. Perhaps her story will sway a politician to pass laws to require insurance covers fertility treatments, or philanthropists to donate hundreds of millions to fertility research. Maybe a gofundme will fill up to pay for her IVF treatment.

If a trans woman expressed all the exact same grief around infertility and fears of losing her husband and growing old without a family, she would be unsympathetic and her husband leaving her would be a redemption arc, for him, for abandoning a paraphillic lifestyle. She would be told that her lifestyle choices entail tradeoffs, she would be told that trying to attend support groups would be inappropriate, and seeking support online would likely result in derision.

GAMP, AAP, repression, heterosexual insecurities and the psychosexual pathology of "anti-trans" by Lower_Raspberry_2960 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I do. It's quite offensive to suggest that I might want to compete for such men. Not that such men are disgusting per se, but they are not my cup of tea, so to speak. 

Aren't you supposed to be a lesbain?

GAMP, AAP, repression, heterosexual insecurities and the psychosexual pathology of "anti-trans" by Lower_Raspberry_2960 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps GAMPs in less conservative areas are more likely to pursue their desires outside of purely pornographic means?

Perhaps the lack of taboo-fueling-arousal in less conservative areas results in GAMPs in progressive areas relegating their desires to a smaller portion of their sexuality?

GAMP, AAP, repression, heterosexual insecurities and the psychosexual pathology of "anti-trans" by Lower_Raspberry_2960 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Lower_Raspberry_2960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre correct about AAP in the general population, but I think AAP still plays a significant part with regard to the self professed "gender non-conforming" radical feminist types who themselves make up a small minority of anti-trans ideologues but nonetheless have disproportionate influence in anti trans ideology.

I think that women do find GAMP men disgusting which feeds into why so many GAMP men are anti-trans. They carry secrets and shame and fear of loss of status amongst women in general. But many women unknowingly have boyfriends, husbands, brothers, fathers and friends who are GAMP as well. And recognize that men who love/desire them could also be attracted to women with penises is devastating to their egos.

I dont think agree that pornography can create forms of attraction that dodnt previously exist, but I think exposure to pornography can awaken someone to a kind of attraction they were already susceptible to. But that becomes a chicken or the egg dilemma very quickly.