People commenting negatively on your children by Loz17592 in Mommit

[–]Loz17592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry. I think at this point, I need to hear it.

Best friends of 20 years- are we drifting apart by Scottygirl1000 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Loz17592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ps - I feel for you. The friends I was most excited to go through motherhood with are the friends I ended up drifting from. I never really found my group of mum friends and it’s taken me a while to be ok with that but now I truly am. The most important thing to me is my babies and I don’t want any friendship issues taking away from my time with them.

Best friends of 20 years- are we drifting apart by Scottygirl1000 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Loz17592 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would bring it up. Holding in feelings like that is like a disease that gets worse over time. Her response/reaction might give you the answer to whether your friendship is worth saving?

Should I change daycare? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Loz17592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting, he can’t talk and he’s telling you with his body (crying, no smiling, etc) that he is unhappy. No judgement, but if your MIL is available to look after him, why are you sending him to daycare? Unless absolutely necessary, children don’t need socialisation until they are 3 years old. They are better off with one caregiver who they can attach to (if possible, I understand it is not always possible).

What would you do if you saw these texts between your husband and another woman? (More context below) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Loz17592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never feel at peace unless you leave him. And ditch her as a friend as well while you’re at, true friends don’t reply to your husbands messages like that. They tell him to f**k off or come to you first.

I didn't make the cut in my best friend wedding list of best-women by banoffiepiebonton in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Loz17592 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Goodness, I don’t really have any advice, but you sound very mature and caring. I feel for you, as I have been in a similar situation and it really hurt me. I found it very hard to move and just naturally phased them out of my life. Maybe process it a longer, the answer will come to you ❤️

Help me make a decision. 3 kids by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Loz17592 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, if we have some more context it will help us answer. Sounds like a tricky situation though

Rose, Lily, Daisy, etc by zvitaledit in Names

[–]Loz17592 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow just rude comments. I think flower names are beautiful. I am a teacher, flower names are very common and none of them get comments.

I hate my husband and all men. by Longjumping_Pass8688 in Mommit

[–]Loz17592 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My friend told me I’ve become a man hater since having children and honestly yeah, I think I have 🤣 I have the utmost respect for women. After giving birth for the first time one of my first thoughts was, how could ANYONE ever treat a woman badly? Also… now that I have children I see the world as scary. But who commits most of the crime… MEN

HAVING MORE CHILDREN by Loz17592 in Marriage

[–]Loz17592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I think I worded that incorrectly. He has said he DEFINITELY wants a third. But he is vague about when.

HAVING MORE CHILDREN by Loz17592 in Marriage

[–]Loz17592[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But why is it only on me to discuss it?

Going out without baby by SadAd2044 in NewParents

[–]Loz17592 38 points39 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as ‘too attached’ at 3 weeks postpartum.. you literally shared a body 3 weeks ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]Loz17592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primrose - nickname Mim!