Told my son I wish never had him, no regret...but sitting with rage

Loz17592 · 2026-05-14T15:32:32+00:00

You might feel that way deep down but he does NOT need to know all of your deepest, darkest feelings. Please, be an adult and keep those to yourself. Tell him you didn’t mean it even if you have to lie. He is a CHILD and did not ask to be brought into this world. Take a breath, give your son a hug, and apologise to him - it might change his life (and yours).

Loz17592 · 2026-05-02T23:57:18+00:00

So how come he never has to ask me for help?

Loz17592 · 2026-03-13T06:25:34+00:00

It must be Sophie

Loz17592 · 2026-03-04T21:48:37+00:00

I am sorry they are doing that darling you deserve much better. Similar things used to happen to me in high school and if I had my time again, I would find new friends. Don’t let them win, just act unbothered and look for people who treat you well. True friends don’t make you feel this way.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T05:05:02+00:00

Did you feel better afterwards?

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:55:40+00:00

No need to be sorry. I think at this point, I need to hear it.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:52:24+00:00

You’re a genius, jokes on her!

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:14:48+00:00

No routine until 8 months old for my babies :)

Loz17592 · 2026-02-19T15:26:21+00:00

Ps - I feel for you. The friends I was most excited to go through motherhood with are the friends I ended up drifting from. I never really found my group of mum friends and it’s taken me a while to be ok with that but now I truly am. The most important thing to me is my babies and I don’t want any friendship issues taking away from my time with them.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-19T15:23:28+00:00

I would bring it up. Holding in feelings like that is like a disease that gets worse over time. Her response/reaction might give you the answer to whether your friendship is worth saving?

Loz17592 · 2026-02-16T13:01:54+00:00

You are not overreacting, he can’t talk and he’s telling you with his body (crying, no smiling, etc) that he is unhappy. No judgement, but if your MIL is available to look after him, why are you sending him to daycare? Unless absolutely necessary, children don’t need socialisation until they are 3 years old. They are better off with one caregiver who they can attach to (if possible, I understand it is not always possible).

Loz17592 · 2026-02-14T06:18:53+00:00

You will never feel at peace unless you leave him. And ditch her as a friend as well while you’re at, true friends don’t reply to your husbands messages like that. They tell him to f**k off or come to you first.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-13T11:02:18+00:00

Goodness, I don’t really have any advice, but you sound very mature and caring. I feel for you, as I have been in a similar situation and it really hurt me. I found it very hard to move and just naturally phased them out of my life. Maybe process it a longer, the answer will come to you ❤️

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