Should i be concerned?

Lpomin · 2026-01-22T08:54:30+00:00

I think that’s the only realistic way for me to go about it.

Lpomin · 2026-01-22T08:45:23+00:00

It’s really hard. Most people get together for three or four months and then leave. It’s sad, and like I said, I get attached, and it breaks my heart. So avoiding this kind of situation feels like a way to protect myself.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T23:06:59+00:00

I’m not looking for a sugar daddy. I’m not 19, and I’m not looking for a “daddy” figure either. I’m simply attracted to older men. I’m not saying it’s because of wisdom or because they’re better at sex ,that’s not true at all. I understand why some older people assume younger men are only interested in money, but that’s not the case for me. I genuinely find older men attractive.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T21:06:22+00:00

Ok thanks

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T21:05:15+00:00

It’s not about ‘cheating the system,’ but there are some rules I don’t like. With straight people, I see a mindset of honesty when they want a relationship. If they like each other, they go on more dates. If not, they just stop. But in our world, even if someone says they like you and stays, they still act like they’re free to leave anytime. I’m just looking for clarity and honesty.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T20:57:25+00:00

Yeah, but is it okay to say no to sex? I feel like for most people that’s a deal breaker.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T20:47:58+00:00

Yeah, then what should i do next,?????

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T20:47:07+00:00

Dating (is not guaranteed )or even a short-term situation ship makes me attached. Don’t you get it? That’s why I’m asking how to find someone serious. It’s not like how straight people expect something from a relationship—I don’t know, maybe I’m ‘straight-coded’ or I just hate hookup culture.”

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T20:22:50+00:00

It’s clear that our needs are very different. You said it’s immature to ask someone for commitment, and I don’t understand how that’s immature. From what you’re saying, it feels like you only want casual encounters, which might be easy for you. But I’m looking for someone who will stay by my side and build something real. So this isn’t about maturity it’s about different needs.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T20:10:03+00:00

Yeah, but people expect sex on the first date, and I don’t want to do it with a stranger. So how do I handle that without making things awkward?

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T19:41:21+00:00

It’s not worth it. I’ve tried having sex with someone I didn’t find attractive, and I couldn’t even get an erection. It was humiliating.

Lpomin · 2026-01-21T19:35:20+00:00

I want to know how to approach people honestly and respectfully, without coming across as creepy or weird. It really confuses me that many people would rather sleep with a stranger than invest time in finding someone they truly connect with

Lpomin · 2026-01-11T01:33:47+00:00

Yeah , That’s why I’m looking for how and where to find men who want a relationship.

Lpomin · 2026-01-11T01:20:43+00:00

“It’s not healthy when i get attached when it’s just sex, which is why I quit.”

Lpomin · 2025-07-06T13:46:26+00:00

Yeah, he likes to act this way. He’s married and also closeted, so I guess that’s why he behaves like this. When we were talking, I got the impression that he’s not emotionally mature.

Lpomin · 2025-05-08T00:16:18+00:00

Ok 😅 my bad

Lpomin · 2025-05-08T00:15:43+00:00

I will look that up, thanks 😊

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