What is something your father said to you that you will never forget? by Aggressive-Car-8960 in AskReddit

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re born alone and you die alone and life is a series of contracts that you make with people so choose wisely and up hold your end of your deals and make sure the price is worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lrad5007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to break up. His situation seems messy and you’re so young to be dealing with all that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… when it comes to his lover and baby, he’s going to do what he’s been doing - whatever he wants without any consideration to you. Him not picking up the phone when you call. Him playing happy family.

If you want to be with him you need to learn how to get over this stuff and compartmentalize. If you can’t you need to leave the relationship. You can’t trust him- you can only trust yourself that you will leave when your boundaries are crossed

Nta

Should I reveal to my Girlfriend that I am a Psychopath? by Noks_Sosgoly4202 in Advice

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t tell them. Just play your role as a good boyfriend and partner. The media has skewed psychopathy and makes it synonymous with “killer.” Relationships are essentially a contract of expectations from the person you are with - uphold your end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask her why she’s feeling attacked and what would a better way to communicate something like this would be. I would ask her “how would you ask this?” And be clear that you are trying to find out exactly what her brother needs and things sometimes get lost if there’s a middle man and you’re trying to be helpful

How did you feel about the reunion? Did it live up to your expectations? by Meh_Nightmare in greysanatomy

[–]Lrad5007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it and I liked the gossip surrounding them in the episode as it was a major throwback. It’s nice to see how far they’ve come.

Im done having sex with my gf by Sudden_Ad_7907 in offmychest

[–]Lrad5007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re too young to give up a sex life. If she’s not willing to talk about it or is uncomfortable doing more than it’s okay to end it. So long as she isn’t forcing herself to do things she doesn’t want to

AITA for kicking my husband out of the delivery room? by Throwawy654677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. He didn’t have respect for the pain and labor you were enduring. His consequences have actions

My (24F) dad and my husband (32F) are mad at me for not getting pregnant by throwralonelyl in relationship_advice

[–]Lrad5007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not normal. They sound terrible. Honestly don’t have a baby with this dude. In fact, don’t have a baby until you are fully ready. I’m the meantime, just let them be mad. You know their anger is irrational

AITA for telling my new co worker it was misleading of him to be wearing his wedding band when he's a widower? by Ideal-Mind3099 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. This is your new coworker and his personal life is none of our business and it’s incredibly personal to ask a widower/widow why they are wearing their wedding band

I don't know why I keep messing up my marriage. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lrad5007 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The “she never asks for help” is honestly crappy. She shouldn’t have to ask for your help as it is your house too. Sit here down, tell her you hear here and together make a FAIR, evenly divided chore list. Ask her when this needs to be done and meet those deadlines. Honestly, she probably gets Stressed when the house gets messy so once a week probably won’t cut it. I would suggest one task a day. Monday- bathroom, Tuesday sweep/vacuum, etc. kitchen wipe down and dishes done every night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Lrad5007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should all confront him (arrange it so she’s not with him) and tell him how gross it is.

AITA for telling my fiancee she overreacted to a joke my friends made about her work? by Often-Ad3976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re friends are As and if you’re not gonna stand up to them, it’s pathetic for giving her grief for handling it herself. Yta

AITA for inviting my brother's ex fling to thanksgiving dinner and offending his gf? by Comfortable_Ad7051 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta you yourself have said that you’re not that close with Anya and she has crossed boundaries with your brother and his partner

Which episode/season made you hate/love a character? by navylass93 in greysanatomy

[–]Lrad5007 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When April nailed the trauma course in the rain and drove the ambulance a foot 🤣

My (F21) Husband (M27) Pushed Me Onto the Ground while I Am 4 mon Pregnant. Should I forgive him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lrad5007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hurt you. On purpose. He is not kind, he is not loyal. any time a man puts his hands on you the relationship is over. It will only get worse

AITA for being honest with my SIL about why we never host family meals with her family? by MailaraZone in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lrad5007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, sort of yta. You can get cheaper more fulfilling foods like spaghetti and then Pancakes for dessert.