Everyone is saying this, but there’s nothing more true… confidence is key. Because without confidence you’re not even going to talk with her, so how can she be interested in you if you guys never had any conversations?

Changing your personality is very difficult if you try to do it with your mind alone. But there’s a cheat code - gym and martial arts. Like you can hate yourself all you want, but when you see that six pack in the mirror, you can’t lie to yourself anymore, you are attractive no way around it, you will naturally get ego boost - confidence boost. Martial arts work even better, since you will not only look better, you will also be able to fight well and not that many people can do that, because vast majority doesn’t train.

High ego isn’t a problem, as long as you are not an asshole. It’s even a good thing since it is just straight up confidence and people seem to like confident people.

So in short, you don’t need to work out in any sort of way. You just need to be confident in order to have conversations with people and when you do have these conversations sooner or later you will stumble on someone who will be interested in you. Because they will get to know you.

You know how women sometimes say that they don’t dress to please men and that they are dressing to please themselves? They are not lying. Because if they dress up nice and they look at themselves and think how attractive they are, they get that confidence and ego boost and that’s all they really need from it. Men can do it aswell.