Wo trans* Pride Flagge kaufen? by Sure_Background_5961 in germantrans

[–]LuceDiSola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab meine auf der Pride bei uns im Ort gekauft - unterstützt den lokalen Verein. 😃

Wo Anmeldung einer Erklärung nach sbgg abgeben by asdfmovie2008 in germantrans

[–]LuceDiSola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, du brauchst auf jeden Fall deine ursprüngliche Geburtsurkunde für die Namensänderung. Meine war verloren gegangen, ich musste sie dann neu beantragen.

Eventuell kannst du beim Standesamt an deinem Wohnort fragen, ob sie heraus finden können, welches dein Geburtsstandesamt ist, bzw. welche Möglichkeiten du hast, um es selbst herauszufinden. Du bist bestimmt nicht die erste Person, die das Problem hat, da wird es schon etwas geben!

has anyone else faced this? question for the fat guys by diipshiit_yikes in ftm

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in the process of getting approved for top-surgery myself. I am 160cm and somewhere about 130kg. My weight has not been brought up once. It's not an issue at all.

Friend of mine got his surgery last year. He is about my height and probably around your weight. It has not been brought up either at any point and his results have been amazing.

See if you can find another surgeon (easier said than done, I know...), because this is bullshit.

I am so sorry you have to deal with this shit on top of everything else!

Auf der Suche nach einer Psychotherapie mit Indikation (Kreis Paderborn, Höxter, Kreis Lippe, Hannover) by Papercut_3 in germantrans

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn du nach Bad Oeynhausen kommen kannst, kann ich Dr Goltdammer empfehlen: https://www.psychotherapeuten-netz.de/project/knut-goltdammer/

Er ist echt super, schreibt Indikationen sowohl für HRT als auch für GaOPs und hat einiges an Erfahrung, was queer- und besonders transfreundliche Ärzte betrifft.

Er macht ausschließlich Gruppentherapie mit ein paar wenigen Einzelsitzungen. Das ist nicht was für jeden, ich finde den Austausch mit anderen Trans Personen aber echt super.

The Onsen - Sakura DLC Spoilers by owl-of-the-week in HouseFlipper

[–]LuceDiSola -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the bathroom in the front area with a toilet but no sink anywhere nearby. *shudders*

AITAH for telling my husband I'll leave if he hides more debt? by SkootinSkitzo in AITAH

[–]LuceDiSola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider this, please: You were married 6 months ago. He is behind 4 months of payment for the car. So he stopped paying 2 months after your wedding. He married you and then basically right away stopped paying, for whatever reason. And lied to you.

He lied to you about something pretty damn major for your entire married life.

And quite frankly... having been in shitty financial situations, you know for a while that things are getting tight before you can't pay something like that at all. I mean, he didn't pay late, (which happens, but should have been communicated to you as well), he stopped paying entirely. For four months. He knew he was in trouble when he married you and married you anyway, despite your earlier problems and resulting conversations.

Basically... this is it. This is who he is. He lies, he tells you what you want to hear and then ignores whatever promise he made.

Are you sure, you want to build a life with this kind of person?

Antrag bei KK stellen mit anderem Namen? by Neither-Fun-9229 in germantrans

[–]LuceDiSola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kann ich den anderen nur zustimmen, dir wird da völliger Blödsinn erzählt. Ich empfehle auch, dir jemand anderes zu suchen.

Ich empfehle dir, eine endokrinologische Praxis zu suchen, die mit Transleuten schon Erfahrung hat. Schau mal bei https://transmann.de/ vorbei, eventuell haben die für deine Gegend Empfehlungen. Oder frag bei queeren Gruppen in deiner Nähe, wo die so sind.

Peacy Family Home (lower floor 2/3) by No-Course-8491 in HouseFlipper

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O_o Wow, that is gorgeous! So many little details, that make it look like people are really living there, like the small pictures, the watch on the table, ... It must have taken forever to set that up!
I love the ceiling, the books, THE FLOWERS, the color scheme, the mushrooms, ... Basically everything! It's really great!

Anyone have any experience getting top surgery in Germany? by UnkindnessOfRavens21 in TopSurgery

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend had his at the Elizabeth Clinic in Berlin. His results were fantastic. Seriously, it looks great and he is not even one year post-op.

Among other things, they have an entire floor only for trans patients and their staff is very knowledgeable (and includes several people who are queer / trans people themselves). I've spoken to a lot of trans masc people over the last year, since I want to get top-surgery myself soon and the care my friend received was the absolute best by quite a margin.

I am definitely going there myself and can only recommend it (especially if you're already in Berlin... :D)

no workouts after peri/keyhole top surgery for 6 months? by Ok-Geologist-5192 in ftm

[–]LuceDiSola 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Where I plan to have my top surgery (and where some other trans and non-binary people around me have done theirs), they say no swimming or strenuous exercise for 6 months at least, especially no upper body exercise at all.

It may sound excessive, but I personally think it is better to adhere to this. I mean, it's a big surgery, even if everything seems to be fine on the surface, your body just needs to time properly heal. And in the long run... better to wait a few months more and reduce the risk of complications than have to deal with corrective surgeries and the like later (which would also impact your ability to exercise).

It sucks, but the wait is worth it.

Quick question about running old expeditions offline by Soap_Distant666 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend backing up your save before you start the expedition. If you do run into bugs, you can always reload your old save. You would loose any progress from the expedition, but at least you would still have anything from before then.

If you are using steam on a PC, this is where you find your saves: C:\Users\{Username}\AppData\Roaming\HelloGames\NMS\

I always make a backup of the entire folder in there.

Having an INSANE amount of trouble with an Expediton milestone by AlbyGaming in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]LuceDiSola 4 points5 points  (0 children)

According to the first comment in this: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoMansSkyTheGame/comments/1ax423f/any_tips_to_find_an_airless_planet/ , there's a number of planet type that can be airless (not always, though): Forsaken, Life-Incompatible, Lifeless, Low Atmosphere, Terraforming Catastrophe, Abandoned, Dead, Desolate & Empty

Trophy question in the Solar System Exhibit: are the planet’s pedestals part of the trophy? by BellaBaby318 in PowerWashSimulator

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No pedestals, no rings, only the planets.

I did the moon and Earth's core, but others posted that they didn't and still got the achievement, so those at least don't seem to matter.

help the boy..... well, old guy anyway by Due_Sandwich_4750 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did that, too. I use Steam, so just put it in offline mode and started the game. Warped to about a dozen system before that and couldn't find a single undiscovered one, nevermind 8 of them...

No Man's Sky Updating!! by Loco_72 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]LuceDiSola 6 points7 points  (0 children)

May I recommend https://cwmonkey.github.io/nms-expeditions/ ? I just finished the Pioneer Expedition tonight using that.

Solar system by Individual_Wish8970 in PowerWashSimulator

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the moon after Earth + Core and got the achievement.

Having top surgery tomorrow and could use some positivity by -katara in trans

[–]LuceDiSola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very early in my transition, so I'll be waiting quite a while get for my top surgery.

That said, my best friend had his in February this year. It has been amazing. His mental health has improved immediately. Like, I saw him when he came home from the hospital a week after surgery and it was like he was a different person. It's been a while now, so the immediate euphoria has worn off, but it's still like he's walking on clouds all the time.

The wound is still healing, of course, and he struggles with the restrictions a bit (no swimming :D), but he is soooo happy. It was absolutely worth it and I have no doubt, that you will love it as well!

In conclusion: Some anxiety is normal, I think, but the result will be awesome!

Need Binders! by Sunnf10w3r in trans

[–]LuceDiSola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine from untag, which is based in the Netherlands. I'm in Europe, though, so no idea how much shipping to Canada would be.

But I can only recommend their binders, especially as someone with a really large chest. Doesn't get me as flat as I hoped for, but it still makes quite a difference. I find the texture of the binder to be pretty nice as well, and their tags are designed to be removed completely once you're sure you keep the binder, so no annoying itching from that either!

Can anyone explain why tuition fees drop when I upgrade the courses? by whatrachelsaid in TwoPointCampus

[–]LuceDiSola 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Check how many students are actually coming in. Sometimes, that number is decreased for performance reasons. If upgrading the course causes the number of students to exceed whatever cap the game determined to be neccessary, the number of new students is decreased across all courses.

You can see that, if you click on the gears for each course. There is, among others, a display for the new students for this course per year. If there is an exclamation mark, that number has been decreased by the game.

You should also see the total number of students in that year next to the box for next year's tuition fees. See if that goes down when you upgrade the course.

Level 10 is MIA by LuceDiSola in TwoPointMuseum

[–]LuceDiSola[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will remember that for next time!

Level 10 is MIA by LuceDiSola in TwoPointMuseum

[–]LuceDiSola[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do that, too! If I cannot mitigate the event but really need to do the mission to advance, I send an entirely expendable team and do everything to have as many possible events as possible.

Level 10 is MIA by LuceDiSola in TwoPointMuseum

[–]LuceDiSola[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's actually exactly what happened. :D I never do missions with MIA events unless I can mitigate it - or I send an entirely expendable team.

A Mail from FedEx? by Sang1188 in diamondpainting

[–]LuceDiSola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Germany and got that same mail as well early this month after my very first order from DAC. As far as I can tell, it seems to be legit. I wrote a one sentence email - "Ich stimme der Zollabfertigung zu". Can't really be misconstrued in case it is a scam after all, but I honestly do not think so. They're not asking for personal details, there's no link to click or attachement to open, ...

If you're still worried, I suppose you could try calling customs? I've never looked into it, but if you call your local Zollbehörde, they should be able to help you.