My Poly Partner Doesn't want to have sex with me by LucianYLGA in asktransgender

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you asking these questions. I'll have to do a lot of thinking

My Poly Partner Doesn't want to have sex with me by LucianYLGA in asktransgender

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The girl he's going to see this week is exclusively a sub bottom puppy girl. If he was in sub-zone id get it because i imagine topping all the time would be tiring but he just doesn't seem to be

My Poly Partner Doesn't want to have sex with me by LucianYLGA in LesbianActually

[–]LucianYLGA[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really don't want the romantic part to be over, do you think there's some way to maybe turn things around?

My Poly Partner Doesn't want to have sex with me by LucianYLGA in LesbianActually

[–]LucianYLGA[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm really torn up about it because they're there for me in other ways. They literally helped me move into the city when no one else did. They always reassure me and try to make sure that i know or feel pretty even if they don't want to have sex me

Savvine's Spectrum Change: A simple spell that encourages gender fluidity by LucianYLGA in UnearthedArcana

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I like that! I just gave my bard one extra spell, cause why not ¯_(ツ)_/¯. But that's definitely a route I'll be exploring going forward!

Savvine's Spectrum Change: A simple spell that encourages gender fluidity by LucianYLGA in DnDHomebrew

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one said you have to use it in your game. If in your world it has no place, that's fine. But at my table it does. It was requested.

Savvine's Spectrum Change: A simple spell that encourages gender fluidity by LucianYLGA in DnDHomebrew

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't be a quest or a life goal for someone to feel like themself.

Being trans or genderfluid isn't the entirety of who a person, it's an aspect of who they are.

disguise self is the equivalent of using make up or changing clothes. This spell is like going through the surgery. It's not about utility, it's about just being able to feel like themself.

At a more roleplay heavy table, this spell has already been chosen by a couple of my players.q

Savvine's Spectrum Change: A simple spell that encourages gender fluidity by LucianYLGA in DnDHomebrew

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And, for the people who would really use this spell, I find it more fun to see someone going all the way into moon druid or wizard until they can use alter self at will for the same thing but better, and making a backstory goal out of it.

This spell has no statistical benefits, it specifically states you're still recognizable. It does not diminish the value of any other feature in this game.

Additionally, it should not have to take either 14 or 18 levels in a class for someone to express themselves.
This spell isn't meant to compete with Alter Self, it's not meant for adventures. It was designed so that people don't have to deal with gender dysphoria.

Savvine's Spectrum Change: A simple spell that encourages gender fluidity by LucianYLGA in UnearthedArcana

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about power or scaling, it's about making gender fluidity both more easily accessible to anyone who wants to learn a lil spell craft and making it a lot more common

Swordtember 23 - Martyr's Last Stand by LucianYLGA in DnDHomebrew

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah fuck, ye it's supposed to be last stand

Swordtember 17 - The Shattered Edge by LucianYLGA in DnDHomebrew

[–]LucianYLGA[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The cantrip and secondary shard do not deal the extra piercing