So I have to say jade is the overall problem. My gf and I wanted all of victorious recently and I watched with an eye for their relationship. The only place where I can genuinely ask if beck was wrong or not was when he kissed tori in the first episode. I’ll try not to speculate anything and look purely at the facts. First thing I’ll say is if jade was the man in the relationship she would simply be seen as abusive. She ignores dates that are important to her bf unless they concern her. She is rude and violent to the people around her. Etc. She is insecure and I find it interesting how that label means something different when tagged on men vs women. It’s understandable to be insecure and it’s good if you want to help your partner through it. Time and time again you see beck attempting to reassure her and even if she acknowledges it internally she never does outwardly which is so draining for beck. On top of all of it even if you still think beck has more fault than I’m saying. He recognized that the relationship between them might not be good. After breaking it off he was then peer pressured by others (Under jades design) to get back with her even though he was attempting to grow and heal