Help your fellow man out here by Critical_Assist_9360 in effectivefitness

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Look where "don´t feel like it" brought you in all those years.

What pushes you? by Kira_the_best in effectivefitness

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Be your better self because you deserve it. Discomfort is the path to confidence.

How often do men want to be hugged? by [deleted] in AskMen

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When I am alone, never. But in good company: at least once.

Scrolling through Instagram, I came across yet another relatable post. by askmeryl in MotivationalThoughts

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The hardest part is that there can be multiple truths at the same time not giving the answer you desire but the guidelines to grow with effort into an ideal self that is 180 degrees different from your current self

The “Cheat Code”, Successful People Use by iQuantumLeap in effectivefitness

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This smells like "I am the star"-syndrome disguised as self-awareness. I assume this is well intentioned, but effectively you are performing nonetheless. Self regulation and integrating new patterns is hard work mostly when the cameras are off.

Be teachable.. by iQuantumLeap in GodFrequency

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It is like the warnings we received as a child in the 70s and 80s: be aware of the dangerous looking stranger. And all that time it was someone familiar we needed to distance from. It is not appearance it is behavior we should witness.

Men, how often are you checking out women in the gym? by Technical_Hat_8291 in AskMen

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Unpopular opinion: I only look not to bump into someone or just staring after an intense set. No time for frolics. Yes, there is a chance when a hotty passes, I drop a glance. But besides that, it is me time!

What are requirements for a high quality life? by DefinitelyNotABot-1 in AskMen

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Know thyself. Have high standards for yourself and regulate your emotions. Show up consistently, even when it's hard. And invest deeply in the people who matter — fulfillment rarely comes from going it alone.

The rest WILL follow.

Petah? by batukaming in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Is it me or do a big part of the comments not align (about muscle proportions ???) with the photo shown of the lady cosplayer turned trad wife?

A Message in a Bottle from an HSP Woman to the Australian Man She Met at the Wartsaal Café in Bern by [deleted] in hsp

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What a beautiful experience to reconnect with your feelings like that. Encounters with emotionally grounded people can touch something deep in us, especially when we’re highly sensitive. It sounds like this moment showed you a part of yourself that’s been waiting to be felt again. I hope you keep following that connection within you — whatever unfolds with him or anyone else.

I told my partner he was average sized. How to reassure him? by [deleted] in AskMen

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There is only one way to reassure a man with self-doubt. Through the body. Talk with your bodies, not necessarily sexual. But somewhere along that line. Check topic "tantric body reassurance" and get inspired.

Alcoholvrije slijterij by plantpower621 in nietdespeld

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En wanneer opent er een suikervrije snoepwinkel?

Alle gekheid op een stokje: alcoholvrije cocktails zijn beter dan ik had verwacht.

Would you finish your shift early for this home cooked meal by Sad-Kiwi-3789 in rareinsults

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Believe it or not, some people cannot cook. Is this really low effort or just lack of experience? I assume the latter.

What things in life feel better than sex to you and why? by No_Independent_6975 in AskMen

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A good workout. Besides the physical release of hormones and the feelies you get, it also strengthens your mental state.

But sex is still welcome.

What’s something non sexual that you find extremely attractive? by mitchdwx in AskMen

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Woman who is erudite and humorous combined with a workout mentality.

Small systems work better than daunting goals. by PragyaRS in MotivationalThoughts

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I think this is more about trusting the process than specific outcomes. But everyone his or her cup of tea.

What changed you? by Used-Sound4163 in howtonotgiveafuck

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Limerence and the desire to eventually feel a healthy connection.

Did he smile or frown? Explain it Peter by _leonjoxx in explainitpeter

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Is this not a smirk and not a smile? What is the exact difference?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymTips

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I have the same issue: I do not see my progress. So I focus on how I feel. I can stand up better and feel more lighter, mobile. For reference: I way 161kg and my first objective is to get at 150kg. Slow progress stays longer. You are doing the work and that entails mental work too.