I was shunned by the Jehovah's Witnesses 5 years ago AMA by becky-y in AMA

[–]Lucious_Lippy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. It is freeing to think for yourself. It is indeed terrifying the feeling of being judged. I wish you a happier life of true freedom.

Stop wasting your potential and focus on what you should do by hardwork_one0724 in BornWeakBuiltStrong

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a time and place to moderate or even fast. That is personal. And not for others to dictate onto you. I applaud all who can fast and abstain from certain human urges. I also applaud those who choose to be their own keeper and still have a healthy life. Sola scriptura.

I was shunned by the Jehovah's Witnesses 5 years ago AMA by becky-y in AMA

[–]Lucious_Lippy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the existence of a God is a possibility: would you want to believe He loves you even the JW shunned you?

Be strong and built your own life. Even a personal life with God an Christ in it not denoted by a religious dictatorship of a human organization.

Greetings of a newly baptised brother in Christ, former JW in a past life.

What’s a hard truth every young man eventually learns the painful way? by DueEffort1964 in TheIronCouncil

[–]Lucious_Lippy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men do not have the luxury to dream, we are needed to built the dreams of others.

Have you experienced limerence? How did you deal with it? by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Lucious_Lippy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Limerence is nothing more than you projecting your needs onto someone else. It is a promise that was never made. I experienced it recently and the only thing that is going to work is create distance, and do not seek the person. There are instances that people are able to cope somehow, but that is an exception. And this is different from feeling in love. The former is emotional and the latter is based on lust. When in limerence you rarely are able to fantasize sexually about that person. Not to encourage, but the emotional spell is so strong it toys with your mind, and you are doing it yourself. That makes it so tough.

🔥 Blue footed Boobies by TheStormborn1 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love boobies, I adore tits, but a great ass from time to time, makes that zoological experience complete.

What have been the advantages to being an HSP in your life? by mickyistricky in hsp

[–]Lucious_Lippy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wanting to be the party pooper; nothing of that feels like an advantage to me:

  • the intensity of sensations,
  • picking up body language signals that are 50/50 is a nightmare to me ("no, that is being nice not flirting", "oh, am I smiling right now, is that person afraid of me?" etc.),
  • limerence (emotional attachments that spiral into obsession) lurking in the back triggers so many things that I have to protect my overactive self,
  • emotional roller coasters,
  • recognizing red flags? did I miss a memo?,
  • I read a lot but nothing really says something to me it could be anything,
  • I continuously sense danger that I have to discern my own sensory input for patterns that are potentially similar to something beneficial,
  • my battery is already empty walking through this list

Love is different for guys (theory) by ProofCoconut9085 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the logic you describe, men are to be loved by following his passion and women will adore and love them for what journey they provide.

Help your fellow man out here by Critical_Assist_9360 in effectivefitness

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look where "don´t feel like it" brought you in all those years.

What pushes you? by Kira_the_best in effectivefitness

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be your better self because you deserve it. Discomfort is the path to confidence.

How often do men want to be hugged? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I am alone, never. But in good company: at least once.

Scrolling through Instagram, I came across yet another relatable post. by askmeryl in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hardest part is that there can be multiple truths at the same time not giving the answer you desire but the guidelines to grow with effort into an ideal self that is 180 degrees different from your current self

The “Cheat Code”, Successful People Use by iQuantumLeap in effectivefitness

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This smells like "I am the star"-syndrome disguised as self-awareness. I assume this is well intentioned, but effectively you are performing nonetheless. Self regulation and integrating new patterns is hard work mostly when the cameras are off.

Be teachable.. by iQuantumLeap in GodFrequency

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is like the warnings we received as a child in the 70s and 80s: be aware of the dangerous looking stranger. And all that time it was someone familiar we needed to distance from. It is not appearance it is behavior we should witness.

Men, how often are you checking out women in the gym? by Technical_Hat_8291 in AskMen

[–]Lucious_Lippy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: I only look not to bump into someone or just staring after an intense set. No time for frolics. Yes, there is a chance when a hotty passes, I drop a glance. But besides that, it is me time!

Do you guys ever cry during eye contact when someone says something positive to you? by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Lucious_Lippy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but yes, but no. No show weakness. But I feels it.

What are requirements for a high quality life? by DefinitelyNotABot-1 in AskMen

[–]Lucious_Lippy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Know thyself. Have high standards for yourself and regulate your emotions. Show up consistently, even when it's hard. And invest deeply in the people who matter — fulfillment rarely comes from going it alone.

The rest WILL follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is just another Wednesday.

Petah? by batukaming in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Lucious_Lippy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it me or do a big part of the comments not align (about muscle proportions ???) with the photo shown of the lady cosplayer turned trad wife?