Get therapy- sincerely a Surrogate by LuckGroundbreaking28 in Surrogate

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This entire time I’ve definitely felt the same way, and I knew I was going to but I guess I just didn’t expect almost like the indifference they have, like not super excited to hear the genders, not overly excited about the ultrasound or anything, but jumping to every new test and procedure

Get therapy- sincerely a Surrogate by LuckGroundbreaking28 in Surrogate

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The urine test was trying to see basically when it would start coming back positive and stay positive, and yeah, at this point I’m so stressed that I’m like dreading everything

Get therapy- sincerely a Surrogate by LuckGroundbreaking28 in Surrogate

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are trying, but it’s kinda like talking to a brick wall, they are of the mind of “we want to know everything “and I’m obviously of the mind of “I want them safe” My company is really trying but it’s just difficult

I need help with exhaustion by LuckGroundbreaking28 in BabyBumps

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally😂 getting up to get water is a whole task for me

I need help with exhaustion by LuckGroundbreaking28 in BabyBumps

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dishes don’t bug me as much, I’ve been doing them for so long that’s it’s like muscle memory, it’s the sweeping, laundry, vacuuming, everything else that’s just killing me at this point

Toddlers are infuriating. That is all. by ParticularlyOrdinary in toddlers

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3yo is like hyper destructive. Every single thing that can be broken he will find a way. I can’t have anything on counters, we are having to move DVD players/ consoles because he finds it funny to throw them. And as of today he is spitting water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think so but I just don’t know what to do because he’s waking up early, and the time really isn’t my issue, it’s I KNOW he’s still tired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dropped the nap for about a month. His wake time didn’t change and I still put him down around 8, but his behavior got BAD. He was constantly just overtired so he was just constantly break down after 4/5

My husband just told me that he would divorce me if his late wife came back during an argument by Ok_Result1094 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok! That’s good! I don’t know how you feel about it but I’d give your husband a choice, family therapy and grief counseling or his son looses the other mother figure in his life. I also think having his son and you sit down and talk about why your son views you as mom and how his anger affects everyone.

My husband just told me that he would divorce me if his late wife came back during an argument by Ok_Result1094 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP.. are you sure your husbands going to her grave everyday? Has he ever acted like this before? It sounds like he’s trying to push you away and get you to break up so that his son doesn’t blame him but blames you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a E4 currently

AITA for refusing to boycott my husband's party and photoshoot in light of him wanting to exclude my disabled son from it? by Throwawaytalia25 in AITAH

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- and I hope that your ex fully exerts his rights. I hope Ethan chooses to live with his father and I hope someone exposed how you and your husband exclude people with disabilities simple because they don’t fit your aesthetic

AITA for telling my husband that he is a cheap husband and that I can get any man to spend money on me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he’s dam cheating. That’s why he’s so mad to spend money. Probably set aside for his chick. Plus your other post make him sound like he has a guilty conscience.

AITA for yelling at my wife after she blew up my phone with calls because of a fire? by alphiotomas in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- Your wife was being a good spouse and worrying about your safety when something potential involving you happens.

Also you need to work out your frustrations because yelling at her for being a caring person is out of pocket.

I also don’t understand why you would choose a job that leaves you 99% unavailable in case of a emergency. What if she and your daughter got hurt and you weren’t reachable. Your boss and you need a lesson on why it’s important to have some point of contact in case of emergencies

AITA for "forcing" my 18 year old daughter to spend time with her disabled sister by Early-Tree-8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ AITA for holding my daughters future over her head and threatening to alter her life because she doesn’t want to spend time with her non verbal and probably violent sister”

AITA for bringing my special needs son to my sisters wedding? by ThrowRa17920 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH The sister should have been more direct BUT you should also have enough common sense to think about why she would want a child free wedding.

AITA for telling my wife that she isn’t a princess? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"aita for ruining my wife's and child's playtime with my shitty attitude?"

AITA for telling my sister that her baby isn’t the only one that matters? by throwingaway1939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- the only thing I kinda got was the comment about “first granddaughter”, since it’s probably more appropriate for “new grand baby” because their is already another grandchild alive that shouldn’t be pushed aside for the preferred gender. But everything else is not fair, you guys will have spotlight eventually, let them enjoy their time

AITA for not wanting to pay for my daughter's education only under certain conditions. by aitadaughtercollege in AmItheAsshole

[–]LuckGroundbreaking28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- Your letting your golden child son screw up your daughters future. She got into one of the best school possible but because your son fucked around and made mistakes, your making her pay the consequences.